We Don't Have Time For This

🎁 WDHTFT Gift Guide: Last Minute

<p>For those last minute, "shit I forgot" gifts, you're welcome!</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Links:</p> <p><a href="https://welcome.storyworth.com/">Storyworth</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.redballoon.com.au/">Red Balloon Gift Voucher</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.dinnerladies.com.au/">Dinner Ladies</a></p> <p><a href="https://chefgood.com.au/">Chefgood</a></p> <p><a href="https://studios.crockd.com/?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQiAu8W6BhC-ARIsACEQoDCDzzXC8z9KP-Fd_Cvw1vcVM_cuyN950OrWhmsODl1hgqJrYjLXOjgaArMxEALw_wcB">Crock'd</a></p> <p>Paint n' Sip</p> <p><a href="https://www.wires.org.au/donate-to-wildlife">WIRES Donation</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.take3.org/donate/">Take 3 For The Sea Donation</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.duolingo.com/">Duolingo</a></p> <p>-</p> <p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p> <p>Apple &mdash;&nbsp;https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p> <p>Spotify &mdash; https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

It’s Beginning to Look A Lot Like F*ck This.

<p>Anyone else their child&rsquo;s walking rubbish bin? Cos, same. And it really has to stop cos of course, the dad&rsquo;s didn&rsquo;t subscribe did they? Gem does have time for Raffa&rsquo;s full blown love of what can only be described as &ldquo;Gem&rsquo;s thing&rdquo; (finally). And Revz doesn&rsquo;t have time for the broken family Christmas do-si-do merry-go-round musical chairs, whatever you wanna call it. But it&rsquo;s December and we&rsquo;re doing our best to be more merry and less grinch cos of course we have a whole lot to smile about. Happy December Mamas; hope you&rsquo;re surviving!&nbsp;</p> <p>#Notspons:</p> <p>Gem: <a href="https://www.kmart.com.au/product/long-sleeve-linen-blend-shirt-s165456/?sku=72841150&amp;region_id=200001&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=PMax:+AUS_GO_SHP_NA_NA_Shopping+-+Product+-+NA+-+AUS+-+Eng+-+All+-+Apparel&amp;ds_eid=700000001591229&amp;ds_e=GOOGLE&amp;&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAmfq6BhAsEiwAX1jsZ7-dWEik7WJ0fMkwyZRXBaKdNmAKUatU9To_jzySepCWfiTK5I4kYxoCaw8QAvD_BwE&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds">Kmart Linen Shirt</a></p> <p>Revz: <a href="https://www.danmurphys.com.au/list/croser-sparkling">Croser Sparkling Wine</a></p> <p>-</p> <p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p> <p>Apple &mdash;&nbsp;https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p> <p>Spotify &mdash; https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : Should I Be The Teachers Pet?

<p>Today&rsquo;s caller wants to know if she needs to be besties with her kid&rsquo;s teacher for extra perks.</p> <p>-</p> <p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p> <p>Apple &mdash;&nbsp;https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p> <p>Spotify &mdash; https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

🎁 WDHTFT Gift Guide: Work Kris Kringle

<p>Gifting inspo for the office kris kringle, you're welcome!</p> <p>Links:</p> <p><a href="https://au.yeti.com/products/8oz-tumbler?variant=40891437318278&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADFnYKHGtJ42uxhHFcQNLphGaKlkI&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyvwgE5NZAmHPLR88r0OzAh7N69uJE4gt2y2LroHZ7cQJ4hNUA5mGFBoCsEAQAvD_BwE">Yeti Coffee Cup</a></p> <p><a href="https://gigiandtom.com.au/products/dotted-wine-glass-clear-set?variant=44167530053793&amp;country=AU&amp;currency=AUD&amp;utm_medium=product_sync&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_content=sag_organic&amp;utm_campaign=sag_organic&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvynDiDzsdpOBulGhyM_SqvWIK-Ojru0Mcs9Ou3CoMWy4SC8nlJywADxoCj2gQAvD_BwE">Gigi and Tom Wine Glasses</a></p> <p><a href="https://sunnylife.com.au/collections/beach-games/products/beach-paddle-set-pool-side-creamblue-scbpspge">Sunnylife Beach Paddle Set</a></p> <p><a href="https://cottonon.com/AU/collapsible-laptop-stand/9357754173148.html?gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADHRTPGyil2BQ16z2vwmtT_usd-9k&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyrBrZEXl7QXIZUgfmLh7R03uJd9hevFIotKUrm0KoQoK7iw2Y0RtdxoCWMgQAvD_BwE">Typo collapsible Laptop Stand</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/Scrub-Daddy-Original-Yellow-Household/dp/B00J420JEC/ref=asc_df_B00J420JEC/?tag=googleshopmob-22&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=712244086695&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=1949779695729869510&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=m&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9071781&amp;hvtargid=pla-423663408431&amp;psc=1&amp;mcid=36319d37b17f3861ab394d3bbd3e481c&amp;gad_source=1">Scrub Daddy</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.thelott.com/instant-scratch-its/ticket-range?semid=L_NTL_ISI_NA_SEARCH_AO_SEM&amp;ef_id=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyotJ35fgrxugavb9r7NUed6a1wWSri8OOBsXnX85iAw0YfNU8UN-gBoCxp0QAvD_BwE%3AG%3As&amp;s_kwcid=AL%214254%213%21618746463726%21e%21%21g%21%21scratchies%21653830783%2149637148462&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADtZKBnNyQ7hUiPcqISi_uh2Mt5lz&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyotJ35fgrxugavb9r7NUed6a1wWSri8OOBsXnX85iAw0YfNU8UN-gBoCxp0QAvD_BwE">Scratchies</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.kmart.com.au/product/handbag-holder-43152490/?sku=43152490&amp;region_id=200001&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=PMax:+AUS_GO_SHP_NA_NA_Shopping+-+Product+-+NA+-+AUS+-+Eng+-+All+-+Living+Home&amp;ds_eid=700000001591229&amp;ds_e=GOOGLE&amp;&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAAD4f9KopoQISKwv-gceA5Az3ugDQS&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyguMl0oXdziQKKuW3BiWUj6b7BqPXfzVB2CqspkGnHIASZg9T_ZWzxoCArIQAvD_BwE&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds">Kmart Bag Hanger</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07D574BQV?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share">Plant Watering Bulbs</a></p> <p><a href="https://amzn.asia/d/2zqHuEY">Fancy Deck of Cards</a></p> <p><a href="https://cottonon.com/AU/mini-vending-machine-3.0/9360103364135.html?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQiAr7C6BhDRARIsAOUKifgW-ZLgoTGPdlKNzkSCtC_jGrP3PpRCFfzSqO2-PqsszUh4tCBopV4aAveNEALw_wcB">Cotton On Mini Vending Machine</a></p> <p>-</p> <p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p> <p>Apple &mdash;&nbsp;https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p> <p>Spotify &mdash; https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Wait, Grandma has a NAME?

<p>Morning all! We&rsquo;re into that final stretch aren&rsquo;t we. Hope you&rsquo;re all hanging in there and aren&rsquo;t too dazed and confused yet. Speaking of, Raffa can&rsquo;t quite compute that Gem will one day be a Yai, and that Yai has a.. like, actual NAME. Revz has become an accidental Pok&eacute;mon dealer on the dark web, and Gem doesn&rsquo;t have time for her kids fighting, like, one more goddamn minute of it. Revz doesn&rsquo;t have much time for the internet these days but she was served up a timely reframe and it&rsquo;s giving *guru*. Some homely #notspons and a couple of random tangents but we&rsquo;re here, we&rsquo;re breathing, merry end-of-the-year everyone, we got this!&nbsp;</p> <p>#Notspons:</p> <p>Gem: <a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/Daoun-Hat-Rack-Organizer-Baseball/dp/B0CLLG8KD4/ref=sr_1_6?crid=3SBZNFM9D6S7H&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.w7GVMGWjyzo1nNmhOae2ezEwHQLrDGMpXyGUs_N3EA1fR16xoPpvyEkicp-RczHCAvDWyff4zz9ULRDIvgdnm1EY4Zxqv4VlYxFgLUN2kLzSiB5s5jFIvJNAY5fiQM3aADo1xvgOMPD-HzcB8eK6SbCwXotNyJCayL09LMA1xSHdB0gQjQzFAkY380bHO2nCZrCoGy0IKkuGNVDtnGGRb7WDTB4Qd6WQVNL_8LIs2B2JD7llZa2yNVSPneGRcPkgyluS_S0kI-pcYRjQbGbUwGNKzIGXkre5f3m0vT-L3_s.13pCIpcvoa2AKBwmf31CzMZftgdMAp3c7WHG1R32GQc&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=hat%2Brack%2Bwall%2Borganiser%2Btransparent&amp;qid=1732760617&amp;sprefix=hat%2Brack%2Bwall%2Borganiser%2Btransparen%2Caps%2C276&amp;sr=8-6&amp;th=1">Hat Rack Organiser</a></p> <p>Revz: <a href="https://huntleyandco.com.au/">Huntley + Co</a></p> <p>-</p> <p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p> <p>Apple &mdash;&nbsp;https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p> <p>Spotify &mdash; https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : How Do I Stop Apologising?

<p>Today&rsquo;s caller doesn&rsquo;t know what to say when she is NOT sorry for existing.</p> <p>-</p> <p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p> <p>Apple &mdash;&nbsp;https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p> <p>Spotify &mdash; https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

🎁 WDHTFT Gift Guide: What do WE want?

<p>Here's what's on our Chrissy wishlist!</p><p><br></p><p>Links:</p><p><a href="https://armsofeve.com/products/paradiso-pearl-necklace">Arms of Eve</a></p><p><a href="https://nicolefendel.com.au">Nicole Fendel</a></p><p><a href="YCL%20|%20Wear%20Your%20Story">YCL Jewels Charm Necklace </a></p><p><a href="https://www.priceline.com.au/product/71438/dr-lewinn's-ultra-r4-collagen-surge-overnight-sleep-mask-30ml?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvylIJ0NUcfoGqkvsy8613B22GX4pK5eHiE0uvzbvgPoSpYT4rPaTymhoCJs8QAvD_BwE&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds">Dr Lewinn’s Night Serum</a></p><p><a href="https://flauntcases.com/?gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADs74uDE9lzZnotBCsIs9s3Ytr4mg&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvygsVzRhNletDsQu2jtAYykfzmOiMtyyVXCL2dVmm1WtEMo6ucPjGNxoCcLAQAvD_BwE">Flaunt Phone Case</a></p><p><a href="https://www.mecca.com/en-au/hourglass/unlocked-instant-extensions-mascara-10g-I-045208/?utm_content=performance-max&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADiWg_GvhSdaREkVmqbq0KlgIvZyQ&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyhz62UHSkLyzjW7ofPjGN6sYTGq6OBLx_A64f0VnCK7TLRuxe_r8LBoCE0IQAvD_BwE&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds">Hourglass Mascara</a></p><p><a href="https://featherandnoise.com">Feather and Noise</a></p><p><a href="https://gimmestore.com">Gimme Jewellery</a></p><p><a href="https://www.mezi.com.au/?google_shopify_campaign_id=21826828969&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADKu2CzU26T4qyP24EvG1U5cOtmAh&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyugwDDRAsfRUEiYYmqeTf9fvGVscirkTAZ9Ze8ULLT1IOfdAJLRashoCxXgQAvD_BwE">Mezi Jewellery</a></p><p><a href="https://gotoskincare.com/products/face-hero?variant=29223865057363&amp;srsltid=AfmBOoqIVXxDQ6Y-yH65G20LUSNFSQQW0P_d2F3DgxPHm_o4R-z51ja_ak8">GoTo Face Hero</a></p><p><a href="https://alivebody.com.au/products/hand-wash-dishwashing-liquid-tray-premium-kitchen-duo?variant=42390058926320&amp;country=AU&amp;currency=AUD&amp;tp_cid=20522109805&amp;tp_pid=shopify_AU_7755350147312_42390058926320&amp;tp_source=google&amp;utm_campaign=pmax_brand&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_source=google&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAAB01yXSFK7LJwcro-N6C920zvSyOi&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyr0cpJC2sjonIvQzoor8-aRsxkuUvYpwoPLDGZmZzcKkO50hSz1vAxoC9FcQAvD_BwE">All.ive Body</a></p><p><a href="https://www.adorebeauty.com.au/p/laneige/laneige-lip-sleeping-mask.html?child_product_id=83290&amp;istCompanyId=6e5a22db-9648-4be9-b321-72cfbea93443&amp;istFeedId=686e45b5-4634-450f-baaf-c93acecca972&amp;istItemId=rtpmtxtrm&amp;istBid=t&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAAD-8fXl8CJrLVyEkKd0ueyujOUZMC&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyjpcdPc9MCNtSWscVRk83eNnMMadFG7D0jFQKMvSDKsgxWokP9WrjxoCT8gQAvD_BwE">Lenaige Lip Mask</a></p><p><a href="https://emmalewisham.com.au/?shpxid=de48a2b6-8a54-4240-a3cd-11aea42c3258">Emma Lewisham</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

A Very Scary Reminder

<p>Well, well, well, aren&rsquo;t we looking fresh (shout out to Lynne) but what we wanna know is what are the Hollywood folks UP to lately cos faces be facing, right? It&rsquo;s December and the Elf is here, we won&rsquo;t go into all that again (cough &mdash; Gem&rsquo;s MAGICAL backflip &mdash; cough) but best of luck to all who invite more mental load in this Christmas. Gem doesn&rsquo;t have time for some mean comments directed at her kid, and Revz can relate, leading to big chats about making room for our kids personal style and bodily autonomy. Then Revz had a scary close call at emergency this week and it begs the question about which sports should we let our kids play and the importance of safety gear for our sporty pups.&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Revz: <a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B07D574BQV?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share">Plant Watering Bulbs</a></p> <p>Gem: <a href="https://iview.abc.net.au/show/operation-ouch">Operation Ouch!</a></p> <p>-</p> <p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p> <p>Apple &mdash;&nbsp;https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p> <p>Spotify &mdash; https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Husband Has Period Shame

<p>Today's caller's son followed her into the bathroom and her husband was not happy.</p> <p>-</p> <p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p> <p>Apple &mdash;&nbsp;https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p> <p>Spotify &mdash; https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

🎁 WDHTFT Gift Guide: Teens and Pre-Teens

<p>Gifting inspo for the teens and pre-teens in your life, you're welcome!</p><p><br></p><p>Links:</p><p><a href="https://www.kmart.com.au/product/oxx-junior-hair-gem-stamper-43319411/?sku=43319411&amp;region_id=200001&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=PMax:+AUS_GO_SHP_NA_NA_Shopping+-+Product+-+NA+-+AUS+-+Eng+-+All+-+Beauty+Accessories&amp;ds_eid=700000001591229&amp;ds_e=GOOGLE&amp;&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvygn_DbozWiIm9_SXLdH8_T73b6c07qMeu9uek9D7XtrqMEmxA0uCMxoCdWMQAvD_BwE&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds">Gem Hair Stamper</a></p><p><a href="https://frankgreen.com.au/collections/reusable-bottles?utm_source=google-search&amp;utm_medium=paid-search&amp;utm_campaign=fmd-search-brand-bottles-au-holiday-hot&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvysoVtnCGzGXyloW-JsYrUEYbYuTYzROJyek20ACmjWJqtpeqVO8G-RoC_JIQAvD_BwE">Frank Green Waterbottle</a></p><p><a href="https://www.lovisa.com.au/products/blush-square-jewellery-case?variant=39387867414662&amp;region=AU&amp;currency=AUD&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=utm_content=&amp;utm_term=&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyrktATItAhereY-b9PhDmgLKJcFMKab_j8LZPgkggMOOKDSxq30e2RoCKbwQAvD_BwE">Lovisa Travel Jewellery Box</a></p><p><a href="https://npaevents.com.au/collections/personalised-rugby-balls?gad_source=1&amp;gbraid=0AAAAACcfN8m_dD27cYDbNJ9eOYfhwqSOa">Personalised Rugby Balls</a></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/pindaloo-Balls-Adults-Indoor-Outdoor/dp/B0B8XHRMBX/ref=asc_df_B0B8XHRMBX/?tag=googleshopdsk-22&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=712292725156&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=16154283793208563506&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=1000286&amp;hvtargid=pla-1988224254204&amp;mcid=b24092e3ed443cbb954ef4e48ca13d4d&amp;gad_source=1&amp;th=1">Pindaloo Skill Game Toy</a></p><p><a href="https://www.sportsgirl.com.au/paradise-bound-splash-snaps-positivity-print-2-075850">Sportsgirl Underwater Camera</a></p><p><a href="https://www.bigw.com.au/tech-audio/cameras-film-photos/polaroid-instant-cameras/c/6311103?srsltid=AfmBOooRoW-q36uHHglG_Q-gHipu3Yp8sc0SM5SVovmfVDDq9T1oGZmq">Instax Polaroid Camera</a></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B0CGX3LVYJ/ref=sspa_dk_detail_0?psc=1&amp;pd_rd_i=B0CGX3LVYJ&amp;pd_rd_w=LfhjY&amp;content-id=amzn1.sym.1466049c-a1d9-4b3d-b57f-ad4194b25db8&amp;pf_rd_p=1466049c-a1d9-4b3d-b57f-ad4194b25db8&amp;pf_rd_r=H08B3YVTTESCB1WP8GTK&amp;pd_rd_wg=C8VLk&amp;pd_rd_r=0d622876-6172-4fda-a34f-c3d0ad916965&amp;s=electronics&amp;sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9kZXRhaWw">Portable Mini Karaoke Machine</a></p><p><a href="https://www.bigw.com.au/product/magcubic-hy300-portable-projector-wifi6-android-11-bluetooth-5-0-ultra-sharp-imaging-smart-connectivity-superior-audio/p/9900193519?srsltid=AfmBOoozywwY7zPQ-7veAld5yTwteoMeRxmppUoafl9Yirscv85BnflcjIk">Bluetooth Projector</a></p><p><a href="https://gopro.com/en/au/shop/cameras/learn/hero/CHDHF-131-master.html">GoPro</a></p><p><a href="https://peteralexander.jgl.com.au/shop/pa-kids">Peter Alexander Pyjamas</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

What Exactly Is Coercive Control?

<p>Today is a very special episode about a very important issue. Yesterday was International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women and kicks off 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence. This important campaign focuses on driving action amongst individuals and organisations around the world calling for the prevention and elimination of violence against women and girls. Coercive Control is a term we hear a lot but not so easy to spot. So we wanted to get an expert in to help us understand this insidious form of abuse, and how to protect yourself, your kids and how to support a friend if you’re worried she’s caught in an abusive relationship.  </p><p> </p><p>Kylie Lynch and her team run an awesome initiative called “Safer Together”, which really opens up the conversation and creates a safe space for everyone, including men and boys, to engage in this issue. The sessions are free to the community, so get in touch if you want to bring “Safer Together” to your workplace, school or club.</p><p><br></p><p>To donate visit wacf.org.au ❤️</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Interior Design Trends

<p>Listen and share with your loved ones</p><p>Gem and Revz x</p><p><br></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : My MIL Stole My Mirror

<p>Today's caller's MIL has crossed another boundary, confront or let it slide?</p> <p>-</p> <p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p> <p>Apple &mdash;&nbsp;https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p> <p>Spotify &mdash; https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

🎁 WDHTFT Gift Guide: Grandparents

<p>Gifting inspo for the grandparents in your life, you're welcome!</p><p><a href="https://www.arloandco.com.au/products/monogram-photo-keytag">Arlo &amp; Co Photo keyring</a></p><p>Coffee Beans</p><p>Lux Chocolates</p><p><a href="https://au.yeti.com/">Yeti Water Bottles</a></p><p><a href="https://www.potteryfortheplanet.com/">Pottery for the Planet Keep Cup</a></p><p><a href="https://www.adorebeauty.com.au/p/laneige/laneige-lip-sleeping-mask.html">Laneige Lip Mask</a></p><p><a href="https://shopflint.co/">Flint Rechargeable Lighter</a></p><p><a href="https://welcome.storyworth.com/">Storyworth</a></p><p><a href="https://onceupon.photo/en-au">Once Upon Photobook</a></p><p>Family Photoshoot</p><p>Beach Bag</p><p><a href="https://www.countryroad.com.au/home-beach-towels-and-accessories-beach-towels/?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAxea5BhBeEiwAh4t5K6sIjOEAnIBhKvELymdDxh-KSBKOZjI_FE2ynZKFMcWkzBiJChr3NhoCo0sQAvD_BwE">Country Road Towel</a></p><p><a href="https://www.apple.com/au/airtag/">AirTags</a></p><p>Skincare</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Male Fragility The Musical

<p>First up, Revz attempts to explain evolution to her kids and (cough) herself. Gem has a very specific fact to contribute from a very specific memory and it’s relevant, trust us. Revz doesn’t have time for the battle she’s having with the school band leader and how many weeks till the end of the year? And Gem doesn’t have time for an oldie but a goodie; male fragility. Sigh. Specifically, some on show at your local neighbourhood musical. Ofcourse we slip into some light Trump dread but it’s fine, it’s fine, we persist. *sweat emoiji* </p><p>#Notspon</p><p>Gem: <a href="https://www.lovisa.com.au/products/blush-square-jewellery-case?variant=39387867414662&amp;region=AU&amp;currency=AUD&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=utm_content=&amp;utm_term=&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQiA6Ou5BhCrARIsAPoTxrDq9VGHSalsNl6s9QgL_Kr7yXtiAzIQTNKtZ4a2EfCBAc0cggRM6IEaAkrEEALw_wcB">Lovisa Travel Jewellery Box</a></p><p>Revz: <a href="https://frankgreen.com.au/products/prebuilt-reusable-party-cups-16oz-475-ml-4-pack">Frank Green Party Cups</a></p><p><br></p><p>Shop our limited edition <a href="https://www.tottie.com.au/collections/we-dont-have-time-for-this-collaboration-bags-for-women">Tottie collection</a> in time for Christmas</p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : Can I Demote My Son's Godmother?

<p>This week's caller is less than impressed with her son's godmother.</p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

🎁 WDHTFT Gift Guide: Babies, Toddlers and Young Kids

<p>Gifting inspo for Babies Toddlers and Younger Kids, you're welcome!</p><p>Mentions:</p><p><a href="https://loungey.com.au/">Loungey Play Lounge</a></p><p><a href="https://mynook.com.au/">My Nook Play Sofa</a></p><p><a href="https://cubbibuddi.com.au/">Cubbi Buddi</a></p><p><a href="https://taronga.org.au/zoo-friends">Zoo Friends Annual Pass</a></p><p><a href="https://www.templeandwebster.com.au/Teddy-Wooden-Cubby-House-LIFG1248.html">Temple and Webster Cubby House</a></p><p><a href="https://www.target.com.au/p/sensory-shaker-assorted/69568480?srsltid=AfmBOor5wbZBqIWLqCLsOgjKGoBE6l0YuIIVxUX-Vr4bVGQgzYVW-axe">Sensory Shaker</a></p><p><a href="https://www.microscooters.com.au/">Micro Scooter</a></p><p><a href="https://www.microscooters.com.au/collections/kids-scooter-accessories">Scooter Accessories </a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3YPPTm5%20">Princess Box</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3NWios2">Sand and beach toys </a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/4hzeLpu">Dinosaur Costume</a></p><p><a href="https://www.bigw.com.au/product/dogtastic-a5-lockable-furry-diary-assorted-/p/267898?srsltid=AfmBOop-l0UHqkcWkxlnXwbtmCCwCi2lGX9gWNdofkLcDRwZYrXHteqJ">Fluffy lockable Diary</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3YUwAIb">Fluffy Lockable Diary with a Fluffy Pen</a></p><p><a href="https://www.kmart.com.au/product/flipslide-game-flip-slide-match-43316311/?srsltid=AfmBOoqmyuNi4TIRdppRlAmxtTjQtcScpLKnnNOtdbWT0HQrt1jMYgzx">Flip slide </a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3CesGkP">Spot it!</a></p><p><a href="https://www.kmart.com.au/product/wooden-tallest-tower-43302222/?sku=43302222&amp;region_id=200001&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=PMax:+AUS_GO_SHP_NA_NA_Shopping+-+Product+-+NA+-+AUS+-+Eng+-+All+-+Active&amp;ds_eid=700000001591229&amp;ds_e=GOOGLE&amp;&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQiAlsy5BhDeARIsABRc6ZtWkGVVx7vdzSIznkTGRMj8QAE9qXKlnR4__MrjgK5_L9Kp_kustBwaAsFGEALw_wcB&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds">Kmart Jumbo Jenga</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Are Involved Grandparents The New Generational Wealth?

<p>Today, we’re on set, but we never leave you without your eps, DLs! So, buckle up for another Tuesday with your chaotic girlfriends who have no time. And keep a keen eye out on Sunday — wink. Gem is into the Christmas spirit, but the kids gifts on her list don’t match her life pallette. What to do? Speaking of Gem, she doesn’t have time for her own big-talk on tidiness, when she is apparently incapable of putting clothes away. But don’t worry, the internet has served up the “one touch theory” so now she can call it a goal. Revz doesn’t have time for complicated human emotions (ok, woah Therapy Girly) but she is inspired by a post in the Facebook group unpacking how to process envy; specifically around Grandparent involvement (and what we’re calling the new generational wealth.) </p><p><br></p><p>#Notspon</p><p>Gem: <a href="https://au.yotoplay.com/">Yoto player</a></p><p>Revz: <a href="https://www.lorealparis.com.au/infallible/brow-xpert-brunette-eyebrow-pencil-3-0">L'Oreal Infallible Brows</a></p><p><br></p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : We're all Vanilla, No Kink

<p>This week’s caller wants to add more spice to the bedroom but her husband is vanilla. </p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

🎁 WDHTFT Gift Guide: Teachers

<p>Gift ideas for the teachers in your life, you're welcome!</p><p><br></p><p>Mentions:</p><p><a href="https://au.callie.com/">Callie Personalised Towels</a></p><p><a href="https://www.bigw.com.au/christmas/christmas-hampers/c/7308">Big W Christmas Hampers</a></p><p><a href="https://www.danmurphys.com.au/list/croser-sparkling">Croser Sparkling</a></p><p><br></p><p>Signup to our mailing list, <a href="https://view.flodesk.com/pages/624f95a9274c31b2fa76a29f">here</a>, for our gifting guide.</p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

The Talk With a Side of Consent

<p>This week on ‘Rookie School Mum’, Gem went too big and showed herself out over a(nother) school comms event. Revz has some big life news and Gem is pumped to have her joining the Basic Burbs Bandits. Revz appears to be moonlighting as a Good Mum, because she is well and truly in her Mum Era and loving it sick. Speaking of sick, everyone is sick, but there’s no time for that! Really teasing out another tricky parenting situation, Gem doesn’t have time for raw dogging the birds-and-the-bees chat without a book, because, that’s what Yai did, y’all and WHERE IS THAT BOOK AT? </p><p><br></p><p>#Notspon:</p><p>Gem: Yeti Water Bottles for kids</p><p>Revz: Modern Family on Disney+</p><p><br></p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : Pick 3 Self-Care Treatments for Me

<p>This week's caller hasn't got time for all the beauty treatments, but she is allowed 3...</p><p><br></p><p>Revz mentions: Bondi Sands Aero Self Tanning Foam Liquid Gold</p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

🎁 WDHTFT Gift Guide: Men

<p>Gift ideas for the men in your life, you're welcome!</p><p>Mentions:</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3YPPO1L%20">Charmast Charging Power Bank</a></p><p><a href="https://dadcooler.com.au/collections/stubby-holder?srsltid=AfmBOookwH4FIt0U4mCZCapn7_Q3zdgdkgFJoWEzFCXxKIJsqC2EmY6W">Custom Stubby Holder</a></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/Wireless-Charger-Station-Compatible-Portable/dp/B0CWNJ5T3L/ref=asc_df_B0CWNJ5T3L/?tag=googleshopdsk-22&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=712243370313&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=8550019410485820470&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9071772&amp;hvtargid=pla-2294758022311&amp;mcid=1b9160d51c6f3970a16f56e66500ada4&amp;gad_source=1&amp;th=1">Wireless Charging Station</a></p><p><a href="https://urbnsurf.com/">Urbn Surf Voucher</a></p><p><br></p><p>Subscribe to the Bestie Bulletin Mailing List <a href="https://view.flodesk.com/pages/624f95a9274c31b2fa76a29f">here</a> for all gift links.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

$5 is PLENTY!

<p>It’s spooky season — eye roll emoji; or is it? Gem has changed her tune and so we celebrate that evolution (applause)! Revz gives us a much anticipated Pup-date on life with a pooch, and tells us all about the life hack that was Isla’s bday party (gifting edition). Revz sees herself reflected back when taking 14 kids to the movies on her own, but she doesn’t have time for a little thing her mates are calling “spicy Lu” (don’t worry, we’ll explain). Gem doesn’t have time for her kids health issues, real and imagined, and Raffa is angling in a way that is, quite frankly, very impressive. Happy Tuesday DLs. So happy you’re here! </p><p><br></p><p>#Notspon</p><p>Gem: <a href="https://budgysmuggler.com.au/collections/kids-swimwear">Kid's Budgy Smuggler</a></p><p>Revz: <a href="https://peteralexander.jgl.com.au/">Peter Alexander PJs</a></p><p><br></p><p>Want more of us in your ears? We drop MORE Time For This fortnigtly on Thursdays, as well as monthly Watch Party eps for our subscribers: join us here:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : I Know My Bestie's Husband is Dodgy

<p>Today's caller is gobsmacked by her friend's husband's behaviour, but even more shocked that she has no idea.</p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Sleep Deprivation (Dog Edition)

<p>Well, look who’s looking all sleek and sh*t and not like she’s been pulled backwards through a bramble! It’s miss Gemma Peanut with a glossy new beauty upgrade. But enough about that and more about Gem’s (questionable) “Life” “Hack” to get kids to watch movies. But speaking of screen time, that old asshole has reared its ugly head again (thanks school holidays) and Gem ain’t got time for it. Revz is deep in doggy newborness and DID WE NOT ALL SEE THIS COMING OMG WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER? But, holding space, holding space. It’s Tuesday and on Tuesdays we wear SAFE SPACE.</p><p>Revz mentions: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thegamereducator/?hl=en">@thegamereducator</a></p><p>#Notspon:</p><p>Gem: <a href="https://www.solmates.com.au/collections/the-refillable-sunscreen-applicator?srsltid=AfmBOooPWt6N7CkorWrVn-bMvAa0O6yD5NJg5_9IcvVudJMxOJ4C4bpX">Solmates Refillable Sunscreen Applicator</a></p><p>Revz: <a href="https://www.brokenwood.com.au/shop/rosato">Rosato wine from Brokenwood</a></p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : F*ck Bluey's Dad

<p>This week’s caller opens up a chat about Bluey’s Dad making us all look bad. </p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Apple — https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>Spotify — https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Little Luxuries and Big Decisions

<p>Kicking us off this week, Revz made a gaffe in the soccer team WhatsApp that went down like a lead balloon. Gem took her mum away and realised just how little uninterrupted time they get these days, because Yai of the year is always helping with the bubbas. Revzy doesn’t have time for her pre-menstrual insomnia, like, what NOW hormones? Why midlife why?! </p><p>Gem is also lying awake as she ignores her own sleep cues for which she has no one to blame but herself. Then, Gem doesn’t have time for processing some complicated feelings around a big decision she’s been wrestling with for a while, and Revz unpacks a family member’s wild detoxing habit that sends her cuckoo. All in all, a rollicking Tuesday with your fave hot mess mums. </p><p><br></p><p>#Notspon</p><p>Gem: Monsters on Netflix</p><p>Revz: <a href="https://beabellingham.com/collections/mugs?srsltid=AfmBOoq4A_CDE7Pyy9YHc2FXW7eJxbb9NIb0WFfrL9hJ7K85gNRzIqfP">Bea Bellingham mugs</a></p><p><br></p><p>Enrolment for P101:</p><p>https://www.gemmapeanut.com/photography-101/</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

☎️ Bestie Hotline : I Don't Want Your Sentimental Shit

<p>Today's caller wants to know how she can say no more to her in laws.</p><p>-</p><p>If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:</p><p>Subscribe on <a href="https://apple.co/wedonthavetimeforthis">Apple </a></p><p>Subscribe on <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moretimeforthis">Spotify</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Bro, I'll Play Fantasy Football

<p>Ok, shit is just getting crazy now because Gem just got fleeced $15 for a salad and what the Sydney?! We kick off today with another two-types-of-people and a solid dog update. (Give the people what they want). Revz wants to know what the female equivalent of Fantasy Football might be and can we use it for more free time? Gem sold all her earthly belongings at a consignment store and is feeling smug and flush to boot! Coupla random fun #notspons and colour me Tuesday! </p><p><br></p><p>#Notspon:</p><p>Gem: Snackachangi Vinegar and Salt Chips</p><p>Revz: <a href="https://www.kmart.com.au/product/handbag-holder-43152490/?srsltid=AfmBOopdGkaH7fivzO20Dv6t2MJDqdSa8ozCA9RGwuQIUOlOvs4E1i7E">Kmart Handbag Holder</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>