We Don't Have Time For This

Sorry, Who's Having Another Baby?

<p>Unpopular opinion... but can we all hold hands and say that <em>sometimes</em> it's just easier to solo parent? THERE! WE SAID IT. But, careful what you wish for. This week, we are looking into the future, with a <em>special guest, </em>Psychic Medium <a href="https://www.instagram.com/stylemisfit/">Anna Paola Boyd</a>, but before we do (and oh, how we do), we reminisce about the past, and remember high school formals? Gem is still smug about her cheap-ass formal outfit and Revz cannot believe she thought she was fat, when in reality she looked like a greyhound. Enter Anna, who has some bombs to drop on us about our future and all the best made plans we thought we had all sewn up. Apparently there are babies on their way, major moves, career slam-dunks and a SOUL CONTRACT. Strap in, basic besties, this one goes roguer than rogue.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Kate | <a href="https://elkacollective.com/shop/apparel/loungewear/winter-pj-set-dusty-blue/">Elka Collective pyjamas</a></p><p>Gem | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3DyyZxwzFnyAgTJBymvk5p">Spotify Playlists by matthew_rooney-au</a></p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, <strong>leave us a review</strong> to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

The Topic We're Utterly Sick Of Discussing

<p>First up, <em>scandal</em>, is Gem up the duff? Cos Revz has done some detective work and if it looks like a jar of pickles and smells like a jar of pickles... MAYBE ITS A JAR OF PICKLES. Gem recounts her first kiss, which makes us mourn the loss of kissing, RIP The Pash. Then we talk about The Sex Talk and how Revz has given it multiple times. Then, look, we're ragey. And we're sick of being ragey on this topic, but we just are. We discuss a current news story and our visceral reaction to how it's played out, which gets us back into sexual politics and workplace behaviour and DON'T WORRY, THEN WE TALK ABOUT THE BEST FOUNDATION.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Kate | Maybelline <a href="https://www.maybelline.com.au/face-makeup/foundation/fit-me-matte-poreless-foundation/ivory-115">Fit Me Foundation</a></p><p>Gem | MCo Beauty <a href="https://mcobeauty.com/collections/foundations/products/ultra-stay-flawless-foundation-natural-beige">UltraStay Flawless Foundation</a></p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis"><strong>@wedonthavetimeforthis</strong></a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, <em>leave us a review</em> to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

If Your Bestie Can't Call You On Your Shit, Who Can?

<p>Ok, periods. Why? Just why? I mean, we know why but, please, have we not evolved beyond the blinding rage? Then we talk about intervention during birth and the further blinding rage we feel when people glorify “natural” birth #whateverthatmeans. Speaking of loving the drugs, we went OUT for Mother’s Day (jokes, there were no drugs) and we keep getting shamed for it. So, is Mother’s Day really for mothers then? And what’s the greatest gift you could give a mum? Which leads us to friendships and the difference between old ass mates and new Mum-Friends. How do you take a friend crush to a friendmance? Finally, Gem is - shocker - exhausted and Revz calls her on her bullsh*t and “next-week” attitude. But in a career win, Gem reveals her new project! So it’s ALL happening!</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Gem | <a href="https://www.mayabrenner.com">Maya Brenner</a> personalised jewellery</p><p>Kate | <a href="https://www.spliceboutique.com.au/products/ayu-ayuverdic-body-oil-100ml-jasmin-and-neroli?variant=32811721850977&amp;currency=AUD&amp;utm_medium=product_sync&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_content=sag_organic&amp;utm_campaign=sag_organic&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwqIiFBhAHEiwANg9szv4AmSUHj9aV-KkmLFraNqjp0Sf0R2gt1PsHapPVpGN7Jp6q0hll6xoCnuQQAvD_BwE">AYU Ayuverdic Body Oil </a>Jasmin and Neroli</p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/ef2e1216-d319-11e9-b572-53b8e6a32fe8/podcasts/288ae2a8-6132-11eb-9e8c-1bbdff71cfc5/episodes/4164d8de-b0cd-11eb-b7f6-ef480e2d0751/instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/ef2e1216-d319-11e9-b572-53b8e6a32fe8/podcasts/288ae2a8-6132-11eb-9e8c-1bbdff71cfc5/episodes/4164d8de-b0cd-11eb-b7f6-ef480e2d0751/www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

When Your Bestie is Navigating Infertility

<p>First up, the people need to know Gem's nickname, and Revz is on the case in this <em>worldwide exclusive </em>and it reminds us just how silly and insecure we all are about the dumbest things that literally no one else cares about. Speaking of names; to keep your name or change it when you get married? What about the kids? And here we go again at the <strong>p a t r i a r c h y. </strong>Also, throwing Gem further under the bus, we're talking bad, old tattoos... and guess who's inked up? Lucky she gives no f*cks!</p><p>Then, we finally get down to it, and the topic on the table is infertility. We have both experienced it, been there for each other through it, and are on the other side. So how do you support someone you love who is navigating life under the cloud of infertility? And how do you tell your childless friend that you are pregnant? We've been there, so you don't have to. Another Tuesday with your basic besties.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Gem | <a href="https://www.hellogreen.com.au/collections/reusable-water-bottles">Hello Green</a> water bottles for kiddos</p><p>Kate | <a href="www.instagram.com/fridayflowers_">Friday Flowers</a> subscription blooms</p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

When Emojis Reveal Your Bad Parenting

<p>What's your most used emoji? Is it lol, a warm hug, Spanish dancer vibes or straight up murdery? Maybe it gives away your drinking problem (*cough* REVZ). We steal each other's phones and psychoanalyse where we're at based on tiny cartoons. Then, we get into a bit of self identity, pregnancy and how going from 0-1 kid and 1-2 kids changes who you are. Oh also, Gem has a biter on her hands and Revzy has a lemon. Thanks for hanging with your fave hot-mess besties for another Tuesday Loose-Fest.</p> <p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p> <p>Kate | <a href="https://dissh.com.au/products/mari-mom-light-blue-wash-denim-jean?gclid=Cj0KCQjwvr6EBhDOARIsAPpqUPHt_MweE33M6Hzz__kJ2w4PqEJ2WnhwKGQQ1-LPxdXwvkgNl001Wq4aAhiyEALw_wcB">Dissh Mari Mom Jeans</a></p> <p>Gem | <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/night-light/id1559703271">Night Light Podcast</a></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/ef2e1216-d319-11e9-b572-53b8e6a32fe8/podcasts/288ae2a8-6132-11eb-9e8c-1bbdff71cfc5/episodes/23c07110-a3ff-11eb-bdcb-d7c463c7a87f/www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/ef2e1216-d319-11e9-b572-53b8e6a32fe8/podcasts/288ae2a8-6132-11eb-9e8c-1bbdff71cfc5/episodes/23c07110-a3ff-11eb-bdcb-d7c463c7a87f/www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p> <p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p> <p>And as always, <em>leave us a review</em> to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

I Don't Wanna See A Ghost, It's The Sight That I Fear Most...

<p>Holidays: a novel location in which to parent! Revz recaps travelling with her Groms and we get into how travelling (even locally) has changed since having kiddos. Then, cos we're deep AF, we get into why women <em>still</em> don't really propose to men and how cool we think it is when women take charge of their own 👏🏻 damn 👏🏻 lives. Also, did you know you're a completely different person every 7 years? Like, <em>science</em>, wise? And we wonder if it's possible or hella dangerous to teach your kids to question, well, <strong>everything</strong>. Gem had one coffee one time and now knows The Meaning of Life...and lucky she does because THIS IS NOT A DRILL, there are <em>ghosts</em> amongst us. And we only have one thing to say about that.... NUP.</p> <p>So, tune in, Dear Listeners, for a strong start and <em>loose</em> "skate" to the finish line.</p> <p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p> <p>Kate | <a href="https://dermaveen.com.au/derma_product/dermaveen-sensitive-relief-eczema-cream-100ml/">DermaVeen Sensitive Relief Eczema Cream</a></p> <p>Gem | Instagram account <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modelsdoingballet/">@modelsdoingballet</a></p> <p>-</p> <p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p> <p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p> <p>And as always, <em>leave us a review</em> to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>SHOW NOTES</strong></p> <p>💜 The Party Company Gem used for Raffa's bday was <a href="www.birthdayfairy.com.au"> The Birthday Fairy</a></p> <p>💜 If you're the giving type, please consider sponsoring Revz' family as they raise vital funds for MS Research in support of her sister in the <a href="https://www.themay50k.org/fundraiser/TeamLuMallam">May 50K Challenge</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Is Crying In Front Of Your Kids Ever Ok?

<p>Hoorah the school holidays are FINALLY over but the whinging kids and sibling fighting, does that EVER end? When you’ve had enough, is it ok to completely lose it in front of your kids? And what about with Hubs? We wonder if there’s a good and bad way to fight with your significant other. Now, it’s far less important, but Revz doesn’t know what to wear and it’s all she can think about. Gem on the other hand in comfy AF (pun intended) being a mumsy dag and ain’t nobody gonna stop her. Sack dresses FTW or tits out for the boys... #discuss. </p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Gem - <a href="https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&amp;rls=en&amp;q=miann+and+co&amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;oe=UTF-8">Miann &amp; Co</a>, <a href="https://illourathelabel.com">Illoura,</a> <a href="https://www.grownshop.com">Grown</a></p><p>Revz - <a href="https://www.sandpal.com/products/sand-builders-kit-australia">Sand Pal</a></p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/ef2e1216-d319-11e9-b572-53b8e6a32fe8/podcasts/288ae2a8-6132-11eb-9e8c-1bbdff71cfc5/episodes/c7d374a2-9615-11eb-9108-3308800fd3a9/www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/ef2e1216-d319-11e9-b572-53b8e6a32fe8/podcasts/288ae2a8-6132-11eb-9e8c-1bbdff71cfc5/episodes/c7d374a2-9615-11eb-9108-3308800fd3a9/www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Never Worked So Hard to Disappoint So Many People

<p>Ok, full disclosure, we are a little loose this week, coming off the back of technical poddy issues and <strong>#dummygate</strong>, we are two sleep-deprived zombies. But we're here! And we're talking about Gem '<em>copping some crit' on the gram </em>via the Mum Police and exactly how dummy weaning went down in her household. Revz has been knocked for six by a meme, and look, it's made her spiral. As if a brutal meme wasn't enough, we also heard a bang on quote and it's just<em> so real</em>, you guys. Gem had a shocking run-in with a Mansplainer which begs the question... Should anyone ever put up with a toxic work culture? Spoiler alert; no, but it's never that easy, is it? Finally, can we just stop waiting for life to get easier? Is it time to lean in to the manic hustle and just own it?</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Kate <a href="https://readingeggs.com.au/gaw/ga4-br?gclid=CjwKCAjw9r-DBhBxEiwA9qYUpRnve7ITQHErvrD8_VkygGkxyZCTbl2212IcDdM7GhgGtEhKe_IGlBoCy58QAvD_BwE">ABC Reading Eggs</a></p><p>Gem <a href="https://www.annabelkarmel.com/au/product/">Annabel Karmel Kids Meals</a></p><p>-</p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Mum Guilt In Flour And Icing

<p>We kick this week off addressing a call-out we got via DMs about beauty, but don’t worry it quickly descends into <em>scrotox</em> and deflect, deflect... LOOK OVER THERE, it's kids party time for us both and we sit on very different sides of the cake aisle. Gem puts on the Outsourcing Queen crown, Revz goes <em>full</em> art director. We don’t have time for extra-curricular craft being assigned outside of school hours. Then we take a trip down memory lane to a whack time we went to... wait for it... RUSSIA. Yet another romp with your basic Tuesday besties. And if you haven't spotted a typo in all of this... Gem was here.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Gem - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/milla.and.coco/">Mila &amp; Coco</a></p><p>Revz - "<a href="https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&amp;rls=en&amp;q=trying+TV+show&amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;oe=UTF-8">Trying</a>" on Apple TV</p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Ask Us Anything (Unless It's About Drunk Shopping)

<p>We're flipping the script this week, cos we wanted to open it up to you, Dear Listeners, in an <em>Ask Me Anything</em>, poddy style! But first, the Easter Bunny is coming for Raffa's dummy and Gem is shitting herself for what's to come. Revz has a little baby klepto on her hands which is probably not a sign of intelligence, although, watch us spin it that way. We talk drunk online shopping and even circle around the cauldron of <em>kids s l e e p</em>. We get into all your quezzies including what success means to us, and more importantly, where do we get our hair done. All in all, another hour with your favourite basic bitches.</p><p><br></p><p>Lots of things to link from this ep:</p><p>Gem's sleep consultant was Lisa Dinnie from <a href="https://www.cherishyoursleep.com.au">Cherish Your Sleep</a></p><p>Parenting Podcast Gem mentioned was Janet Landsbury's <a href="https://www.janetlansbury.com/podcast-audio/">UnRuffled </a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Kate recommends the sleep / meditation app for kids <a href="https://www.moshisleep.com">Moshi</a></p><p>Gem recommends the <a href="https://www.wrigglebum.com.au/shop">Wriggle Bum</a> to help with wriggly nappy situations</p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

When You Run Into Your Ex Looking *Fire Emoji*

<p>Have you ever run into your ex? Let me rephrase, have you ever run into your ex looking *Fire Emoji*. Well sometimes, just sometimes, life serves up a just dessert, and this happened to "Us" this week and "We" were both there for it and we may have merged into the one person at this point. Gem also experienced another parenting first / rite of passage and arrived at a pretty awkies realisation about herself that she needs to unpack. Revz is pissed that ALL the family gifting falls on her, even for her in laws, so we get into that and somehow end up at another layer of guilt involving sustainability. Wow, we did it again, we went everywhere. </p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Kate <a href="www.instagram.com/bon_tot">Bon Tot</a>'s Stainless Steel Water bottles</p><p>Gem Billie Eilish <a href="https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=L&amp;ai=DChcSEwiLkLbKuMPvAhUEVWAKHTzSAn4YABAAGgJ0bQ&amp;ae=2&amp;sig=AOD64_3n9IaI6veujumCYlvh3wJj5DzNfw&amp;q&amp;adurl&amp;ved=2ahUKEwj3vq3KuMPvAhU1iOYKHaNNCVMQ0Qx6BAgQEAE">The World's A Little Blurry</a></p><p>-</p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, <em>leave us a review</em> to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup </strong>and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Getting Paid to Overshare

<p>Drama, Drama, Drama! We had our first on-air fight over, wait for it, Harry &amp; Meghan. Its the Brit v The Republican and spoiler alert, nobody wins. In the theme of confrontation, Gem tells us about an aggressive blow-up at her local playground and then in some kind of weird non sequitur we get into the hot topic of sharing your life on the internet - we reminisce about life pre-social media and then get hella scared for the children. THE CHILDREN! Finally, Revz forced Gem into a 'salacious' tell-all about what really happens behind the scenes of influencing and what-was-this-episode-about? Life...oh, life! ohhhh li-ife, OH LIFE. Doo doo doo doo.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Kate | Naked Sundays <a href="https://nakedsundays.com/products/spf-50-hydrating-glow-mist">Hydrating Glow Mist SPF 50+ </a></p><p>Gem | Sabbia Co Cleaner Cloth <a href="https://sabbiaco.com/products/removal-kit?_pos=18&amp;_sid=f7f2a4ab6&amp;_ss=r">Removal Kit</a></p><p>-</p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam<a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis"> @wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new<a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis"> Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, <em>leave us a review</em> to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Please Son, Don't Be A D!*k

<p>With rampant-ass misogyny coming at us from every angle this week in the news here in Australia, we're in a mood. But its not all bad, REVZ WENT OUT FOR DINNER WITH CHILDREN and nothing burned down, and Gem's sweet baby angel learned to call her Grandparents "stinky" 😳. The topic on the table this week, though, is the boys, and what is the best route for them in this world to hopefully make sure they turn out to be good, respectful, decent men. Or at least give them the best possible chance at turning out this way. Here's to strong, sensitive, feminist men. May we be them, may we know them, may we raise them.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Kate @lifebloodau</p><p>Gem @daisyandhen</p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Let's Talk About Sex, (After) Baby

<p>We're all thinking it, how much sex is everyone having? Well, not <em>everyone </em>everyone, more like, everyone with young kids who have been together for a while and are, well, tired AF. How much sex? Cos we feel like people are lying and that it's the new insta-status to be boinking for Australia. So, is it a sign of the quality of your relationship and just when is the perfect time, amongst all the other things we don't have time for? We just wanna get into it, and by it, we mean the topic, not the actual sex thing. That's tiring.</p><p><br></p><p>#notsponsored</p><p>Kate <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nleadbetter_photography">@nleadbetter_photography</a> virtual photo shoot</p><p>Gem "<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uh4dTLJ9q9o">Lava</a>" by Pixar</p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new Facebook Group!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to<strong> hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

The Difference Between Boys &amp; Girls

<p>We kick off today's show with some pass-ag gifting and then, oh what a surprise, Gem has another s#^t story to share about some #funkyjunk. Which gets us thinking, what <em>are </em>the differences between boys and girls and once again, does it really matter? Gem gets a boner for Malcom Gladwell and Revz is so over all the mums forecasting her motherhood experience. Will she make it to 7pm on yet another groundhog day? We check ourselves over how many times we've uttered the phrase "oh you think it's hard <em>now</em>..." and we end with a feud over interior design. We also ignore all your DMs about why dogs are amazing, so you should probably troll us over on the <a href="http://www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>.</p><p>-</p><p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p><p>Kate <a href="https://www.kmart.com.au/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/SearchDisplay?searchTerm=rattan&amp;categoryId=&amp;storeId=10701&amp;catalogId=10102&amp;langId=-1&amp;beginIndex=0&amp;sType=SimpleSearch&amp;resultCatEntryType=2&amp;showResultsPage=true&amp;searchSource=Q&amp;pageView=#.plp-wrapper">Kmart's Rattan Collection</a></p><p>Gem <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fawnandfinch">Fawn &amp; Finch </a></p><p>-</p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p><p>And as always, <strong>leave us a review</strong> to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Bonus Ep! THE GOOD MUM IS HERE!

<p>If you want the tea spilt on all the supermarket deals around town (#<em>MumPorn</em>?) this is the ep for you. She may not fit into the "school pick up mum" list, but The Good Mum LOVES a bargain&nbsp;and she is full of all the tips. Together, we heap shit on Gem, reminisce and literally do laundry.</p> <p>We chat to The Good Mum about raising babes, career juggles, ambition, marriage, and what makes a good Mum friend? The answer; Sweary, loves a wine and fucks off by 7pm. Put <em>that</em> on a t-shirt.&nbsp;</p> <p>Huge thank you to our forever bestie Claire for joining us on the poddy. Girl has<em> a lot </em>going on and if anyone didn't have time, its her, and she made it for us. We love you Bella. ❤️</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>#notsponsored</strong></p> <p>Gem <a href="https://www.the-bettercompany.com">Better Cup</a></p> <p>Kate <a href="https://www.vans.com.au/shop/kids">Vans</a> for school</p> <p>Claire <a href="https://www.aldimum.com.au/monarc-chocolate-crowns-4-pack/">Crowns</a> from Aldi</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a> or our brand new <a href="www.facebook.com/groups/wedonthavetimeforthis">Facebook Group</a>!</p> <p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to <strong>hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</strong></p> <p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the <strong>#extendedmothersgroup</strong> and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Can Your Hobby Be A Girl’s Night Out?

<p>Sometimes, you just need a whinge. When is it ok, who can you whinge to and has whinging become our full time hobby? Speaking of hobbies, the husbands are at it again, wanting to have a life of their own and its a HARD NO from us. Also what’s the balance between full on Tiger Mom and Unsupportive when it comes to kids activities and did you know that Hanson are Dads on TikTok? Also, we’re making this gang official… wanna join our club?</p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam <a href="https://www.instagram.com/wedonthavetimeforthis/?hl=en">@wedonthavetimeforthis</a></p><p>We would <em>love</em> to hear from you! Leave us a review to help us welcome more babes in the #extendedmothersgroup and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Dare You To Write Out The Stay At Home Mum Job Description

<p>What's the hardest, most undervalued job in the world? Staying home with your kids. End of. We discuss when we knew it was time to head back to work and what we'd do differently if there was a next time. We also get into some woo woo theories on full moons and kids sleep and somehow end up at how we met our husbands. WHAT A RIDE!</p><p>-</p><p>#notsponsored</p><p>Kate Ultra Violette <a href="https://ultraviolette.com.au/collections/facial-skinscreens">Queen Screen</a></p><p>Gem <a href="%20https://www.joinclubhouse.com">Clubhouse</a></p><p>-</p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam @wedonthavetimeforthis or our brand new Facebook Group!</p><p>We would love to hear from you! Send us a voice memo or a video of where you're listening from to hello@wedonthavetimeforthis.com</p><p>And as always, leave us a review to help us include more babes in the #extendedmothersgroup and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Can We Be Mum-Friends?

<p>Kate reveals how hard Gem's wedding was for her and Gem reveals how hard it was to lose her bestie to Motherhood #grouptherapy. Plus! Shocker, there's more sh*t talk, like literally, as well as a plan to get more botox. </p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam @wedonthavetimeforthis. We would love to hear from you! Leave us a review to help us include more babes in the #extendedmothersgroup and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Being An Actor is a Continual Punch in the Guts

<p>What’s it really like to be in a soap like Neighbours? What do actors get paid? How do you get auditions and what do you do while you’re waiting around to be “picked”? Gem is feeling major feelings about her “slashie” career this week and she needs to talk about it. Also, making new Mum friends and why oh why must your kids out you for drinking too much? (No points for guessing who that happened to).</p><p><br></p><p>For more, join our Gram Fam @wedonthavetimeforthis. We would love to hear from you! Leave us a review to help us include more babes in the #extendedmothersgroup and keep the poddy LOLing along.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

But Can You Really Trust Your Nanny?

<p>The moral dilemma of witnessing some shady Nanny behaviour when you know the mum. To meddle or not to meddle, that is the question. Kate does not have time for the school holidays this year. Oh and whoops, more stories of shitting in public, brought to you by the Northern Beaches Defecators. For more, join our Gram Fam @wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

What Comes After the Before And After Photo?

<p>What comes after crippling self-consciousness and before radical self-love? No fkn idea?! It's a messy, contradictory, fraught and necessary chat about diets, exercise, body image and how instagram can trigger it all. For more, join our Gram Fam @wedonthavetimeforthis.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Never Tell Your Mum Your Baby Name

<p>To find out or not to find out, that's a silly question! Gem and Kate discuss finding out the "gender" of your unborn baby and whether a gender reveal is cool, fun or on the nose. Also Bridgerton. Sexy, sexy Bridgerton. For more juice, join our Gram Fam @wedonthavetimeforthis.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Twenty Twenty One-der How This Will Go?

<p>After a mixed bag Christmas, we're crawling to the New Year! Gem does not have time for resolutions and Kate is over being asked about her living situation. Ready to roll the dice and see how this next year is going to pan out… To catch up on more or to throw episode suggestions our way, head to our instagram @wedonthavetimeforthis</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

You're Doing Christmas Wrong!

<p>Well, it's lockdown again, just in time for Christmas. Gem and Kate compare Santa's role in their families and process a Troll from Christmas Past.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Husbands and Schedules and Gifts, Oh My!

<p>How do we "do it all"? Spoiler alert: WE DON'T. We talk schedules, the mental load and making time for your husband... with a side helping of mum guilt, just in time for the holidays.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Talking shit, like, literally.

<p>Have Kids, they said! Gem and Kate discuss getting ready with kids up in your biz and a serious power wee by a toddler on a slide. Nuff said.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Christmas and Quarantine!

<p>Imagine doing 2 weeks of Hotel Quarantine as a solo parent with your pre schooler and toddler *Insert scream emoji*. Well Kate did it, and she's giving us the brutal blow by blow.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

We bought a mic!

<p>Welcome to our maiden voyage episode! This first ep sets the scene about how this podcast came to be: Who are we? What are we? And why we don't have time for this. So tune in, grab a wine but be gentle, we're new to this.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

Trailer

<p>Welcome to the 'We don't have time for this' podcast. Featuring Gemma Peanut and Kate Reeves.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>