Mental Health
The Imperfects
Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg
We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.
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Hamish Macdonald - How To Be You
Nov 19, 2023 1h 55m<p>As co-host of The Project, Hamish Macdonald has seen and done more than most journalists could ever dream to achieve in their entire career.<br><br>Before The Project and a stint hosting ABC’s Q+A program, Hamish worked and reported around the world from war zones to natural disasters, winning a bunch of prestigious awards including a coveted Walkley Award in the process.<br><br>But as he discusses with Hugh, Ryan and Josh, he’s also faced bullying throughout his life, whether that be from students during his high school days, or from online trolls during his Q+A days - a challenging experience that drove him to leave social media forever.<br><br>This open and honest chat covers it all, and turns out to be a pretty handy, albeit accidental guide on How To Be You.<br><br>To listen to Hamish's new podcast, Take Me To Your Leader, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3ukzpph">https://bit.ly/3ukzpph</a></p> <p>To listen to our episode with Missy Higgins, follow this link: <a href="https://apple.co/4fVM8Bo">https://apple.co/4fVM8Bo</a> <br><br>To listen to our episode on stress and burnout with Dr Emily, follow this link: <a href="https://apple.co/3CE41WT">https://apple.co/3CE41WT</a> </p> <p>To listen to Josh's song, We Were Here, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3Zyg3bG">https://bit.ly/3Zyg3bG</a></p> <p>To read article recommendation, Why The Internet Isn't Fun Anymore, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3FZGnTh">https://bit.ly/3FZGnTh</a></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Dr Louise Newson - Maybe it’s Menopause
Nov 12, 2023 1h 11m<p>Menopause, or THE Menopause according to our guest lecturer Dr Louise Newson, affects every woman at some point in her life. That’s 51% of the entire world! And even if you’re not a woman, chances are you know a few of them. <br><br>Either way, the menopause IS coming. And you better be ready.<br><br>Dr Louise Newson is a GP and Menopause specialist who is campaigning for better menopause care for all women. But despite her specialisation and regular lecturing on the subject, even she didn’t pick up on the signs when her own menopause kicked in and convinced her she hated her own husband!<br>This episode isn’t just everything you need to know about your own menopause, this is everything you need to know about your wife’s/mother’s/daughter’s/sister’s/friend’s/colleague’s menopause.<br><br></p> <p>To learn more about Louise, her work and to access more information on the menopause and peri-menopause, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/49rgqJH">https://bit.ly/49rgqJH</a></p> <p>To download Louise's Balance app, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3FOhpWS">https://bit.ly/3FOhpWS</a></p> <p>To learn more and purchase Dr Louise's books, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3ueOQ2p">https://bit.ly/3ueOQ2p</a></p> <p>For Australian support, information & research, visit the below websites: </p> <ul> <li><strong>WellFemme </strong>is a Telehealth menopause clinic, providing evidence-based menopause information and treatment in collaboration with your GP: <a href="https://bit.ly/3FYcAdn">https://bit.ly/3FYcAdn</a></li> <li><strong>Menopause Friendly</strong> provides information and practical resources to support staff experiencing menopausal symptoms at work and helps managers and HR professionals understand how they can provide the right support to their workforce: <a href="https://bit.ly/49rgx85">https://bit.ly/49rgx85</a></li> <li><strong>VITAL</strong> is an innovative research project that women can take part in to map the experience of Australian women around peri/menopause. It operates as a registry that collects data via a questionnaire. This data could determine how best to support the population and the research is run by Assoc Prof Erin Morton at Flinders University: <a href="https://bit.ly/3QQydTl">https://bit.ly/3QQydTl</a></li> </ul> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see your doctor, a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Dr Emily - Who Do You Desire?
Nov 5, 2023 59 min<p>We know, we know, we know. ‘Who Do You Desire? is a very click-baity title. But we’re pretty confident that if you DO take the bait (come onnnn), you’ll be nicely rewarded. <br><br>In this episode, our resident psychologist Dr Emily talks with Hugh, Ryan and Josh about the concept of Mimetic Desire - the idea that whether we like it or not, pure originality is impossible. All of us are being influenced by someone. The question is, are we proud of the someones currently influencing us, or does our influencer list need a shake up?<br><br>Once again, Dr Emily has the answers.<br><br>For book recommendation, 'Wanting, Mimetic Desire: How to Avoid Chasing the Things You Don't Want', by Luke Burgis, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3QIpFOm">https://bit.ly/3QIpFOm</a><br><br><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Steve Hooker - The Ups & Downs & Ups
Oct 29, 2023 1h 39m<p>Not many of us have won Olympic Gold. And even fewer of us have jumped over a 6m high bar. But Australian pole vaulting champion Steve Hooker has done both. And boy oh boy does he have a story to tell!? That was rhetorical btw, he definitely does have a story to tell.<br><br>What would you do if you were the best in the world at something one day, and then the next day you suddenly couldn’t do that thing anymore?? At all. That’s pretty much what happened to Steve. And on this episode he tells childhood friends Hugh and Josh, along with newhood friend Ryan, how he was able to get through that and how it affected his mental health.<br><br>To donate to the Community Spirit Foundation through the sMile relay event, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3Sg33WL">https://bit.ly/3Sg33WL</a><br><br>To buy ticket's to the Zatopek race where Hugh, Steve, Brendan and Simon will be attempting to break the 400m relay record (in the mens 40-44 age group), follow this link <em>(and remember use the code "theimperfects" at the top of the ticket listing for $5 of the proceeds to be donated to the Community Spirit Foundation)</em>: <a href="https://bit.ly/473VKW8">https://bit.ly/473VKW8</a><br><br>To watch Steve's winning jump in the 2008 Beijing Olympics, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/40cDuYl">https://bit.ly/40cDuYl</a></p> <p>To watch the pink dildo security camera footage, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/40dbF2c">https://bit.ly/40dbF2c</a></p> <p>For app recommendation, Calm, (compassion and loving kindness meditations), follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3MhcRMe">https://bit.ly/3MhcRMe</a></p> <p>For book recommendation, Positivity, by Barbra Fredrickson, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3FxjBSf">https://bit.ly/3FxjBSf</a></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Lewis Hobba - Success Is Never Enough
Oct 22, 2023 1h 26m<p>Lewis Hobba grew up idolising Triple J. But despite being chosen as Triple J’s drive-time co-host by the age of 30, and being selected by Andrew Denton as one of Australia’s most creative and talented young performers for the show Hungry Beast, Lewis never felt like he succeeded in anything. <br><br>In this Vulnerabilitea House, Lewis tells Hugh, Ryan and Josh what it was like behind the scenes for him during this time and how he dealt with crippling anxiety on a daily basis until eventually seeking help.<br><br>To listen to Lewis's podcast 'Silver Bullet', follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3ScFmyB">https://bit.ly/3ScFmyB</a><br><br>To hear Ryan's episode where he talks about shame, jealousy and finding his purpose, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/46AfnW3">https://bit.ly/46AfnW3</a><br><br>To purchase our Vulnerabilitea House card sets, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3PBFlkR">https://bit.ly/3PBFlkR</a></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Taryn Brumfitt - Every Body Is Perfect
Oct 15, 2023 1h 27m<p>As Australian of the Year, Taryn Brumfitt is making a massive impact on an issue that effects people everywhere… BODY IMAGE.<br><br>Not only is Taryn a body image campaigner, she’s also a documentarian, having made two docos encouraging us to EMBRACE our bodies, not matter what they look like. We highly recommend you watch them - links below.<br><br>In this Academy of Imperfection, Taryn talks with Hugh, Ryan and Josh about her own body image journey, including a vulnerable Before & After image of herself that broke the internet and changed her life. Don’t worry they fixed the internet soon after.</p> <p>Taryn Brumfitt's documentary <em>Embrace </em>is available on Netflix, Stan, Amazon Prime, Youtube, Google Play & Apple TV.</p> <p><em>Embrace Kids</em> is available on Binge, Foxtel, Apple TV, Google Play & Amazon Prime. </p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Tim Minchin - Lucky To Be Here
Oct 8, 2023 1h 46m<p>Tim Minchin is an Australian comedian, actor, writer, musician, poet, composer, and songwriter. He’s probably best known for his music, his comedy, and well… his ‘Matilda: The Musical’… but has it really all been “luck”?<br><br>Tim talks with Hugh, Ryan and Josh about so many different things in this fascinating chat about art and creativity, family, free-will, success, failure and the importance of taking life one level at a time.<br><br>For tickets to Tim's new show, An Unfunny Evening with Tim Minchin and His Piano, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3ZxAGVs">https://bit.ly/3ZxAGVs</a><br>To watch Tim perform White Wine in The Sun, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3RzwORS">https://bit.ly/3RzwORS</a><br>To purchase The Resilience Project's journals, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3RUBke7">https://bit.ly/3RUBke7</a></p> <p>To listen to our episode with Dr James van Cuylenburg, mentioned in this episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3ZFS0YA">https://bit.ly/3ZFS0YA</a></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Vulnerability Update: Josh Wrote a Song!
Oct 4, 2023 18 min<p>If you know, you know. And if you do know, you’re just as bonkers excited as we are.<br><br>Buuut if you don’t know, that’s totally fine too.<br><br>Those that were able to make it along to our Live On Stage show this year were treated to the debut performance of a song, written and performed by our very own Josh van Cuylenburg. But this song was not without context.<br><br>In Season 3 Josh shared a vulnerable story from 13 years ago that resulted in him losing the confidence to realise his lifelong dream of writing music (link to that episode below). But when we were planning our Live on Stage Show, we asked Josh to consider writing and performing an original song. And ohhhhh boy… HE DELIVERED. <br><br>Today we are very proud and excited to announce that “We Were Here” has not only been recorded, but the song is now available on Spotify, with a seriously moving official music video that you can WATCH on YouTube. Links below.<br><br>To listen to Josh's song on Spotify, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3Zyg3bG">https://bit.ly/3Zyg3bG</a></p> <p>To watch the film clip on YouTube, follow this link: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uuMrC0AZ4ko">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uuMrC0AZ4ko</a><br><br>To listen to the original Vulnerabilitea House episode where Josh first talked about losing his confidence to write music, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3tdYkKI">https://bit.ly/3tdYkKI</a></p> <p>To purchase our Vulnerabilitea House cards sets, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3PBFlkR">https://bit.ly/3PBFlkR</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Dan Sultan - Stopping The Bullshit
Oct 1, 2023 54 min<p>Eastern Arrernte and Gurindji singer/songwriter Dan Sultan is a 5-time ARIA Award winner and respected stalwart of the Australian music industry. <br><br>But alongside his creative achievements, is Dan’s struggle with addiction. Dan talks with Hugh, Ryan and Josh about everything from the adversity he’s faced on and off the stage, to the joy he now gets from his young family, and his ongoing love of creativity.<em data-stringify-type="italic"><br><br></em>To purchase or listen to Dan's new album, Dan Sultan, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3ZBv9NQ">https://bit.ly/3ZBv9NQ</a><br>To watch Paul Keating's historic Redfern speech that Josh mentions in the episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3EVltnA">https://bit.ly/3EVltnA</a><br>To listen to our episode with Brooke Blurton, mentioned in this episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/459k1c6">https://bit.ly/459k1c6</a></p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Jack's Gambling Addiction Story
Sep 27, 2023 1h 18m<p>For Jack, it’s progress, not perfection when it comes to his battle with gambling addiction.<br>This one is a slightly different episode for The Imperfects. Jack isn’t a celebrity, or an expert. But he is a person with imperfections, just like everyone else. And Jack has been kind enough to share his all-too-familiar story with Hugh, Ryan and Josh.<br>Jack discusses his crippling battle with sports gambling, his experience at rehab, and how he was finally able to escape his life of keeping secrets.<br>Jack’s story of gambling addiction is not a story we hear often, but it’s sadly a very common one - particularly in Australia<br><br>To contact Gambler Helpline, call 1800 858 858<br>To learn more about BetStop, and the national self exclusion register, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3Zzub4l">https://bit.ly/3Zzub4l</a></p> <p>To learn more about Gamblers Anonymous, and find GA meetings near you, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3ZuXmpn">https://bit.ly/3ZuXmpn</a><br>For app recommendation, My Spiritual Toolkit, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3RCa04a">https://bit.ly/3RCa04a</a></p> <p>For mindfulness, meditation and sleep app recommendation, Calm, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3RxzIGV">https://bit.ly/3RxzIGV</a><br><br>This episodes contains a discussion around addiction and mentions suicidal thoughts, if this feels like too much for you to listen to right now, we recommend skipping this one and only listening when you feel ready. </p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Dr Emily - Other People Matter
Sep 24, 2023 1h 10m<p>Dr Emily is back - and once again proving why she is increasingly becoming the most popular person on The Imperfects.<br><br>This Emisode is all about a fundamental part of Positive Psychology… the beautiful idea that OTHER PEOPLE MATTER.<br><br>Now, you’re probably thinking… of course other people matter, right? Seems pretty obvious. But here, Dr Emily explains what it is about ‘other people’, that matters so much, and how much it relates to our never-ending search for that elusive thing we call “happiness”.<br><br>To learn more about positive psychology and Christopher Peterson's work, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3t7AvnP">https://bit.ly/3t7AvnP</a></p> <p>To learn more about the impact of physical touch to build trust and corporation and to read about the NBA basketball study mentioned in the episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/48puJ0R">https://bit.ly/48puJ0R</a></p> <p>To learn more about Eudimonic and hedonistic happiness, and Martin Seligman's work, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3PRs88w">https://bit.ly/3PRs88w</a><br><br>For Josh's recommendation, This Is Water, by David Foster Wallace, follow this link: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eC7xzavzEKY&t=6s">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eC7xzavzEKY&t=6s</a></p> <p>For book recommendation, 'The Happiness Trap' by Russ Harris, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3tbjkl0">https://bit.ly/3tbjkl0</a></p> <p>For book recommendation, 'The Courage To Be Disliked', by Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/452d8cA">https://bit.ly/452d8cA</a><br><br>For book recommendation, 'On Living', by Hospice Chaplain Kerry Egan, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3rz3tfE">https://bit.ly/3rz3tfE</a></p> <p>For book recommendation, 'Love 2.0' by Barbara Fredrickson, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/48psM4B">https://bit.ly/48psM4B</a><br><br><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Brooke Blurton - The Path Of Most Resilience
Sep 17, 2023 1h 16m<p>To only say that Brooke Blurton was on The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, would not only be a crime to Show Notes, but a huge disservice to you. As Hugh, Ryan and Josh quickly discover, that doesn’t even scratch the surface of what makes Brooke the inspiring, resilient, game-changing, youth-working, breath of fresh air that she is.<br><br>While Brooke does touch on her Bachelor and Bachelorette experiences (and why she decided to do it), what makes this Vulnerabilitea House truly special is the story that she vulnerably tells about her upbringing in WA. An traumatic experience that no doubt changed her forever, but one that she now says she wouldn’t change.</p> <p><br>To watch Brooke's Ted Talk, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/46fdGwB">https://bit.ly/46fdGwB</a></p> <p>To listen to Brooke's podcast, Not So PG, with co-host Matty Mills, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3PG88FR">https://bit.ly/3PG88FR</a></p> <p>To purchase Brooke's memoir, Big Love, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/45PfSLs">https://bit.ly/45PfSLs</a></p> <p>To learn more about the Uluru Statement of The Heart and The Voice, follow these links: <a href="https://bit.ly/3Pmd69F">https://bit.ly/3Pmd69F</a> & <a href="https://bit.ly/3Rs7T2y">https://bit.ly/3Rs7T2y</a><br><br>To purchase our Vulnerabilitea House cards sets, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3PBFlkR">https://bit.ly/3PBFlkR</a></p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">This episode contains a conversation which mentions sexual assault and suicide. If this brings up anything for you, </em>you can contact 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732. 1800 RESPECT is a national 24/7 counselling line for anyone who has experienced, or is at risk of, family and domestic violence and/or sexual assault.<br><br>Additionally, if are worried about someone you know, need to talk to someone bereaved by suicide, or want to start a discussion about suicide prevention in your family or community, Conversations Matter is a practical online resource to support safe and effective discussions about suicide, to access, please follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3Wx9tAO">https://bit.ly/3Wx9tAO</a></p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Penny Moodie's New Book - OCD & Finding Joy Again
Sep 13, 2023 46 min<p>Penny Moodie first shared her OCD story on The Imperfects in 2020. Since then, we and she have been flooded with incredible feedback from OCD sufferers who finally felt seen. Now Penny is back because she’s written an incredible book about OCD called The Joy Thief and it’s out now (link below).<br>In this beautifully moving episode, Penny talks openly with Hugh, Ryan and Josh about some of the confronting moments from her book. <br>The reason Penny calls OCD ‘the joy thief’ is because it attempts to steal so much of the joy from your life. In Penny’s case, it almost stole her blossoming relationship with Hugh in the early days, and as a child it tried to take the one thing she held most sacred - the safety of her mother.<br>This may be a b-b-b-bonus episode, but it’s also a v-v-v-very special one.<br><br>To purchase Penny's book, The Joy Thief, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3RkMTuC">https://bit.ly/3RkMTuC</a><br><br>To learn more about OCD and to access resources to assist with getting help and how to manage it, follow these links: </p> <ul> <li>So OCD - <a href="https://soocd.com.au/">https://soocd.com.au/</a></li> <li>This Way Up - <a href="https://thiswayup.org.au/">https://thiswayup.org.au/</a></li> <li>The International OCD Foundation: <a href="https://iocdf.org/">https://iocdf.org/</a></li> </ul> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Professor Tim Spector - Food Fight
Sep 10, 2023 1h 6m<p>Food is such a mystery. Well, I mean, it’s the stuff we eat when we’re hungry, we know that much. But there are so many mysterious things ABOUT food. Like… What actually are healthy foods? What are good fats? Is meat good for you? Is orange juice really that bad? And can food truly be as effective as medicine? <br><br>Professor Tim Spector has done all the research, written books (link below) and is one of the world’s top 100 most cited scientists. Tim really knows about food and he really wants to help all of us eat better and feel happier. <br><br>And he’s here to answer all of the questions from students Hugh, Ryan and Josh in The Academy of Imperfection.<br><br>To purchase Tim's book, Food for Life, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3EvBP6c">https://bit.ly/3EvBP6c</a><br>To learn more about Tim, his other books and his research, follow this link: <a href="https://tim-spector.co.uk/">https://tim-spector.co.uk/</a><br>To learn more about Zoe, Tim's personalised nutrition company, follow this link; <a href="https://zoe.com/">https://zoe.com/</a><br><br><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Grant Denyer - Self-Worth Was Worth Fighting For
Sep 3, 2023 1h 41m<p>Whether it was Family Feud or whether it was the weather, Grant Denyer has been a larger than life fixture on Australian TV for 25 years. But it hasn’t all been big smiles and Gold Logies. <br><br>In this raw and vulnerable chat with the most joyous man on the telly, Grant opens up about his past dependence on the pain medication (OxyContin) that he needed after suffering a serious injury that broke his back. He tells Hugh, Ryan and Josh how that dependence not only jeopardised his career, but his marriage and family.<br><br>While this is a side of Grant Denyer that you may not know, it is a story of hope and resilience about a successful (and loveable) man who nearly lost it all… but found enough strength and self-worth to fight for his life.<br><br>To watch Grant's Gold Logie acceptance speech, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3EmsIEL">https://bit.ly/3EmsIEL</a><br>To watch the trailer for Painkiller on Netflix, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3R5H308">https://bit.ly/3R5H308</a><br>To listen to Grant's podcast, It's All True, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/4bN6ATO">https://bit.ly/4bN6ATO</a></p> <p><br><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Dr Emily - Friendship 4 Eva
Aug 27, 2023 1h 20m<p>Monica. Chandler. Rachel. Ross. Phoebe. Joey. We all love Friends. But what about friendSHIPS? Why are our friendships so important to us? </p> <p>In this episode, Dr Emily explains everything - our different types of friends, why they matter SO much, and what it is about someone that makes us like them? (Spoiler alert: it’s got nothing to do with how impressive they are)</p> <p><br>To listen to Will McMahon's Imperfects episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3E9qfxF">https://bit.ly/3E9qfxF</a></p> <p>To listen to 360's Imperfects episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/45p6qy7">https://bit.ly/45p6qy7</a></p> <p>To learn more and read some of Robin Dunbar's research, follow these links: <a href="https://bit.ly/45KyDiy">https://bit.ly/45KyDiy</a> & <a href="https://bit.ly/45KKjls">https://bit.ly/45KKjls</a></p> <p>To learn more about William Rawlin's work around expectations in friendships, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3OOaZLj">https://bit.ly/3OOaZLj</a></p> <p>To learn more about The Beautiful Mess Effect, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3qNcSA2">https://bit.ly/3qNcSA2</a></p> <p>For book recommendation, 'Platonic, The Surprising New Science of Making and Keeping Friends As an Adult', by Marisa Franco, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/45GZU5v">https://bit.ly/45GZU5v</a><br><br><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Myf Warhurst - The Anxiety of Uncertainty
Aug 20, 2023 1h 9m<p>Myf Warhurst is an icon. An Australian icon. Everyone, we have an icon on our podcast.</p> <p>From Spicks & Specks to Triple J, and Eurovision to Bluey… oh and doing a whole show about menopause… HER menopause… Australia has LOVED Myf Warhurst for a long, long time. <br><br>You might even think it’s impossible to love her more, well just wait until you hear her honesty and vulnerability in this Vulnerabilitea House.<br><br>Myf talks about the anxiety that comes with her line of work, how she’s dealt with the ups and downs that come with a career in the entertainment industry, and what she’s learned from the tragic loss of people close to her.<br><br>To watch The Truth About Menopause with Myf Warhurst, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/47C1nMo">https://bit.ly/47C1nMo</a></p> <p>To listen to Myf's podcast, 'Bank On' with Zan Rowe, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3YFBIyc">https://bit.ly/3YFBIyc</a></p> <p>To purchase Myf's memoir, Time of My Life, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3OIOjMp">https://bit.ly/3OIOjMp</a></p> <p>To listen to Chrissie Swan's Imperfects episode that Myf talks about, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3qL7WeO">https://bit.ly/3qL7WeO</a></p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">This episode contains a discussion about suicide. If this feels like it's too much for you to listen to right now, you may want to skip this one and come back another time</em>.<br><br>If are worried about someone you know, need to talk to someone bereaved by suicide, or want to start a discussion about suicide prevention in your family or community, Conversations Matter is a practical online resource to support safe and effective discussions about suicide, to access, please follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3Wx9tAO">https://bit.ly/3Wx9tAO</a></p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Osher Günsberg- In & Out Of Control
Aug 13, 2023 1h 23m<p>For 20 years, Osher Günsberg has been one of Australia’s most famous and successful TV/radio/podcast personalities. Since hosting the wildly popular Australian Idol, to handing out roses on The Bachelor (and SO MUCH in between), there aren’t many showbiz stories that rival Osher’s sustained success. <br><br>But if we’ve learned anything on this podcast, behind every perfect story is an imperfect reality. And as you’ll hear in this honest chat with Hugh, Ryan and Josh, Osher’s journey has been exactly that... imperfect. <br><br>Osher talks about his struggle with alcohol addiction, his relationship with control, and living with ADHD. He also explains why he decided to change his name at the height of his fame.<br><br><br>To listen to Osher's podcast, Better Than Yesterday, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3YuYEjN">https://bit.ly/3YuYEjN</a></p> <p>For book recommendation, Emotional Agility, by Susan David, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3KF6GAV">https://bit.ly/3KF6GAV</a><br><br><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment.<br>This episode discusses alcohol abuse. If you are struggling with your relationship with alcohol, or other drugs, you can access free, confidential, 24/7 support from Counselling Online. <a href="https://www.counsellingonline.org.au/">https://www.counsellingonline.org.au/</a><br></em><em data-stringify-type="italic">Alternatively, seek support from friends and family, your local doctor, therapist, AA Group, or call lifeline on 13 11 14. </em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Dr Richard Harris - “That Thing In Thailand”
Aug 6, 2023 1h 9m<p>While our guest might humbly refer to his heroics as “that thing in Thailand”, it was in fact far more significant…<br><br>In 2018, the world was gripped by the terrifying story of thirteen boys who were miraculously saved from inside a Thai cave. Maybe you’ve seen one of the billion docos made about it, or the Hollywood film directed by Ron Howard. As you probably already know, the most miraculous part was HOW these boys were saved, thanks in large part to today’s guest, Australian deep-diving anaesthetist, Dr Richard “Harry” Harris.<br><br>In this fascinating Academy of Imperfection, “Harry” answers some of the 5000 questions that Hugh, Ryan and Josh wanted to ask (but didn’t have time), and then ultimately shares some valuable insights on the art of risk.<br><br>To learn more or purchase 'The Art of Risk' by Dr Richard Harris, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/44R70EP">https://bit.ly/44R70EP</a><br><br>To listen to Dr Harris's podcast, Real Risk, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3OJil3Q">https://bit.ly/3OJil3Q</a></p> <p>To learn more about the National Geographic documentary, The Rescue, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3YpDeEp">https://bit.ly/3YpDeEp</a></p> <p>Documentary, 'The Trapped 13' that Dr Harris mentions in the episode in available to watch in Australia on Netflix. </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Dr Emily - When Are You Triggered?
Jul 30, 2023 49 min<p>The phrase, “That’s triggering” or “I’m triggered”, has become more and more common. And while people are triggered by an event, or a topic, or even a scene in a TV show, what does it truly mean to be ‘triggered’? And should we really be avoiding triggering topics, or should we be exposing ourselves to them?<br><br>In this extremely helpful episode, Dr Emily goes deep on triggers. She explains to Hugh, Ryan and Josh what it means to actually be ‘triggered’, and how we often use the term incorrectly. She also talks about the use of Trigger Warnings in shows and podcasts, like the ones you often hear at the beginning of The Imperfects. <br><br>There’s a HEAP more fascinating information in this one so get your notebooks out and listen up to the brilliant Dr Em!<br><br>To watch Susan David's Ted Talk, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3YfosA1">https://bit.ly/3YfosA1</a></p> <p>To delve further into the research around trigger warnings, follow these links: <a href="https://bit.ly/3KCvObB">https://bit.ly/3KCvObB</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/3Kh6uHH">https://bit.ly/3Kh6uHH</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/3q9hBLW">https://bit.ly/3q9hBLW</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/3Qeuwaa">https://bit.ly/3Qeuwaa</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/3rOVrz2">https://bit.ly/3rOVrz2</a>, <a href="https://bit.ly/3rPrNcV">https://bit.ly/3rPrNcV</a><br><br><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Christie Whelan Browne - Unbreakable
Jul 23, 2023 1h 32m<p>Christie Whelan Browne is one of the funniest (and most talented) people in Australia. If you know, you know. She’s won multiple awards and done everything from stage and musical theatre, to TV drama and comedy… and most recently Dancing with the Stars.</p> <p>But it’s her journey, before the #MeToo movement (and continues today) that’s making the biggest impact. Christie has rarely spoken so openly about her very public and tumultuous experience through the courts, in the media and even within her own family, as she became the face of a high-profile criminal trial and subsequent defamation trial that turned her life upside down.</p> <p>Historically, making the world a better, safer and more equal place for women has never been easy. Far from it. And in this episode Christie tells Hugh, Ryan and Josh what it was like for her, as she landed in the firing line while trying to protect other women like her. To us, Christie is an inspiration and we couldn’t be more grateful to her for sharing her imperfect story with us.<br><br>To watch the True Stories episode with Christie, please follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3BV2x6Y">https://bit.ly/3BV2x6Y</a></p> <p>To view The Blessed One on Instagram, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3NYEiu7">https://bit.ly/3NYEiu7</a><br><br>This episode discusses allegations of indecent assault, if this brings up anything for you, you can contact 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732. 1800 RESPECT is a national 24/7 counselling line for anyone who has experienced, or is at risk of, family and domestic violence and/or sexual assault.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Laura Henshaw - What Do They Think Of Me?
Jul 16, 2023 49 min<p>Laura Henshaw has achieved a lot. Not only is she an author, law graduate and podcaster, but she is the CEO and co-founder of the wildly popular and successful health & fitness app, KIC - which she started and still runs with friend, and former Imperfects guest, Steph Claire-Smith. <br><br>But behind her success, Laura still worries what people think of her. And in this Vulnerabilitea House, she vulnerably tells Hugh, Ryan and Josh where this comes from and how this anxiety continues to crop up for her in everyday life.<br><br>We’ve got a feeling this’ll be a verrry relatable one.<br><br>To listen to Ben Crowe's episode that Laura mentions in this episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3Ockd52">https://bit.ly/3Ockd52</a></p> <p>To listen to Steph Clare Smith's Imperfects episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/46G3luN">https://bit.ly/46G3luN</a></p> <p>To learn more about KIC and to download the app, follow this link: <a href="https://kicapp.com/">https://kicapp.com/</a></p> <p>To listen to Laura and Steph's podcast, KICPOD, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3NX7XUM">https://bit.ly/3NX7XUM</a></p> <p>To read and purchase Laura and Steph's new book, You Take Care, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/43tzMJS">https://bit.ly/43tzMJS</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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James van Cuylenburg - Love Your Wonky Bricks
Jul 9, 2023 1h 26m<p>Other than being a Clinical Psychologist (with a child specialisation), Dr James van Cuylenburg is not only Hugh and Josh’s cousin, but in Hugh’s opinion, he’s the greatest piano player in the world - which provides zero context for this incredible episode.<br><br>James covers so much in this 90 minutes that it’s almost impossible to sum up here. Everything from the development of our kids today, screentime issues, the cost of ambition, the importance of self-compassion and James’s own experiences with bullying and how it motivated him to study psychology. Among MANY other topics.<br><br>This episode is not just about kids. It’s about the human experience and why we should all acknowledge and love our “wonky bricks” and make the most of our short time on this floating ball we call earth. PRESS PLAY ALREADY!</p> <p><br>To learn more about James's work, or book into see him or another psychologist at Engage One on One, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3MV947W">https://bit.ly/3MV947W</a></p> <p>To learn more about Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3MVgNTC">https://bit.ly/3MVgNTC</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Dr Emily - How to Stress Less
Jul 2, 2023 1h 5m<p>What do you do when you’re stressed? Watch the telly? Scroll the innuhnet? Fix yourself a stiff VB on the rocks? <br><br>We all feel stressed and burned out from time to time. It’s unfortunately a reality of life. But double-unfortunately, most of us don’t know how to correctly deal with it. And that’s why Dr Emily is here to help!<br><br>In this extremely practical episode, Dr Emily explains the science behind WHY we get stressed. But more importantly, she tells us what we can do to alleviate the stress and WHY it will work. <br><br>And why does she know all these things? Because she’s a… [to be sung] PSYCHOLOGIST!!!<br><br>To listen to Kate Reid's Imperfects episode, follow these links: (pt1) <a href="https://bit.ly/45wqwqQ">https://bit.ly/45wqwqQ </a>& (pt2) <a href="https://bit.ly/3BQFAlz">https://bit.ly/3BQFAlz</a><br><br>For book recommendation, 'Burnout, The secret to solving the stress cycle', by Emily & Amelia Nagoski, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3IGQZrY">https://bit.ly/3IGQZrY</a></p> <p>For book recommendation 'The Joy of Movement' by Kelly McGonigal, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3ODdzoU">https://bit.ly/3ODdzoU</a></p> <p>For app recommendation, 'One Sec', follow this link: <a href="https://one-sec.app/">https://one-sec.app/</a></p> <p>For book recommendation, 'Mans Search for Meaning' by Victor E Frankl, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3BSddDq">https://bit.ly/3BSddDq</a></p> <p>For further reading on The Polyvagal Theory, follow this link <a href="https://rb.gy/23wtb">https://rb.gy/23wtb</a></p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Hugh & Penny - The Elephant in the Relationship
Jun 25, 2023 1h 8m<p>You might remember Penny Moodie from her first appearance on The Imperfects when she talked about her own experience with OCD. Link below if you don’t! Well, Penny is back to talk about something else; her marriage with Hugh. Or, more specifically, and far less click-baity, the mental load in her marriage with Hugh. <br><br>“The mental load” is the cognitive effort that’s required to juggle the often invisible labour of running a household. Something that Penny noticed was becoming too much for her to handle. <br><br>In this unique episode, Hugh and Penny talk about how they dealt with this, and in doing so give us the rare opportunity to hear a real married couple talk about their real issues. All while Ryan and Josh pretend to not be on Team Penny. If you or your partner is struggling with the very real issue of mental overload, this episode is probably for you.<br><br>To learn more about Fair Play, the book, the cards and Eve Rodsky's work, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/45uLCFS">https://bit.ly/45uLCFS</a></p> <p>To watch Bluey episode The Pool, mentioned in this episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3MSORzF">https://bit.ly/3MSORzF</a></p> <p>To read more about how breast feeding equates to a full time work load, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/45sLkPR">https://bit.ly/45sLkPR</a></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Michael (Wippa) Wipfli - Light at the End of the Tunnel
Jun 18, 2023 1h 5m<p>If you live in Sydney, you probably know Wippa. He’s on NOVA every morning with Fitzy and Kate Ritchie (or 6-7pm in the rest of the country), but he's also a veteran of Australian radio, having been on air for 20 years, making his start in Port Augusta before moving to Perth, then Melbourne and now Sydney.<br><br>Wippa and Ryan have been great friends for a long time. They even co-hosted the NOVA drive show for two years with Monty Dimond in 2009 and 2010. During this time, Wippa went through one of the darkest periods of his life and leant on Ryan for support. Wippa talks about that time in this episode - how he got through it and the positives he takes out of it all these years later.<br><br>But if it’s not Wippa’s extreme vulnerability that will stay with you after this episode, it’s the truly bizarre but incredible gift that he surprises Ryan with at the end. Wow.<br><br><br>To watch Wippa sing 'The Confrontation' from Les Miserables with Hugh Jackman, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3BVhcPH">https://bit.ly/3BVhcPH</a></p> <p> </p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">This episode contains a conversation which mentions depression and suicidal thoughts. If this feels like it is too much for you to listen to right now, you may want to skip this one and come back another time</em>.<br><br>If are worried about someone you know, need to talk to someone bereaved by suicide, or want to start a discussion about suicide prevention in your family or community, Conversations Matter is a practical online resource to support safe and effective discussions about suicide, to access, please follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3Wx9tAO">https://bit.ly/3Wx9tAO</a></p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Kemi Nekvapil - The Secret of Your Success
Jun 11, 2023 1h 20m<p>We all want to be successful. But what is ‘success’? And what if we’ve been thinking about it in the wrong way? <br><br>Enter Kemi Nekvapil… back for the second time on The Imperfects!<br><br>Kemi has worked in the wellness industry for 25 years and holistic leadership for 10 years. She is a mother, a wife, an endurance athlete, a gardener, an author with three books, and a certified Dare To Lead facilitator having trained personally with the one and only Brené Brown! <br><br>In this Academy of Imperfection, Kemi joins Hugh, Ryan and Josh to talk all about finding TRUE success - which… surprise, surprise… has nothing to do with your achievements or your salary.<br><br>To listen to Kemi's first Imperfects episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3BT7VaY">https://bit.ly/3BT7VaY</a></p> <p>To listen to Kemi's new Audible Original podcast, Power Talks with Kemi Nekvapil, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3ovvun1">https://bit.ly/3ovvun1</a></p> <p>To learn more about what Kemi does, and to purchase her book, 'Power, A Woman's Guide to Living and Leading Without Apology', follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/45sFDBt">https://bit.ly/45sFDBt</a><br><br>To listen to Will McMahon Imperfects episode, mentioned in this episode follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3MyMa4U">https://bit.ly/3MyMa4U</a></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Ben Shewry (Pt 2) - How The Chef Was Made
Jun 4, 2023 1h 11m<p>This is Pt2 of our chat with award-winning chef and owner of Melbourne restaurant, Attica. Go back and listen to Pt 1 if you haven’t yet. It’s a doozy. As the second part, this is a double-doozy… or a... twoozy… I guess.<br><br>In this episode, Ben explains how he managed to build empathy amongst the staff at Attica through something he created called Staff Speeches. He also shares a harrowing bullying story from his childhood when his mother saved him from certain catastrophe, and finally Ben opens up for the first time publicly about his challenging journey with body image.<br><br>As one of the most respected and celebrated chefs in the world, we’re very grateful that we were able to sit down with Ben like this. He left a very positive impression on all 3 of us, for very different reasons. Thanks Ben.<br><br>To learn more about Attica and to book, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/4386LUP">https://bit.ly/4386LUP</a><br><br>To listen to our episode on how to write a gratitude letter, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/45GtpVT">https://bit.ly/45GtpVT</a></p> <p>To learn more about the mountain bike riding trip that Hugh, Ben and Hamish went on, visit Blue Darby Pods Ride Tasmania or follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3IEs1tg">https://bit.ly/3IEs1tg</a></p> <p><em data-stringify-type="italic">This episode contains a graphic description of bullying experienced by our guest at a young age. If this feels like it is too much for you to listen to right now, you may want to skip this one and come back another time</em>.</p> <p>If you or someone you know is experiencing body image issues or an eating disorder, The Butterfly Foundation is a fantastic resource and support. Please follow this link: butterfly.org.au</p> <p>For family and carer support please contact Eating Disorders Families Australia, or follow this link: edfa.org.au<br><br><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Ben Shewry (Pt 1) - The Other Side of Excellence
May 28, 2023 1h 12m<p>Originally from New Zealand, Ben Shewry is the head chef and owner of Melbourne-based restaurant Attica - the highly respected restaurant that has been included in the World’s 50 Best Restaurants numerous times.</p> <p>Ben’s chat with Hugh, Ryan and Josh was so big and so special, it needed to be split across 2 big and special episodes.</p> <p>In this first big and special part, they talk about what makes Attica such a unique place, how he approaches his work, and how he deals with the anxiety that arose from his divorce.<br>But, what is sprinkled across everything Ben does, is his unwavering commitment to excellence and his adoration of change.<br><br>To learn more about Attica and to book, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/4386LUP">https://bit.ly/4386LUP</a><br><br>For book recommendation, Kitchen Confidential, by Anthony Bourdain, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/43hC7rC">https://bit.ly/43hC7rC</a></p> <p>To watch the trailer for 'The Menu' movie, that ben mentions in the episode, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3BPYEQC">https://bit.ly/3BPYEQC</a></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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Dr Emily - Curb Your Perfectionism
May 21, 2023 1h 9m<p>We’ve spent about four and a half years on this podcast telling you why we’re all imperfect. But on this episode, Dr Emily actually explains why trying to be PERFECT is… well… really bad. And not only why it’s really bad, but why perfectionism’s mere existence is stealing all the good from our lives. <br><br>Take it away Dr Emily……… PSYCHOLOGIST!<br><br></p> <p>To learn more about Lynn Lyon's work around anxiety and perfectionism, follow this link: <a href="https://www.lynnlyons.com/">https://www.lynnlyons.com/</a></p> <p>To hear Josh's first VulnerabiliTea House, where he talks about "the notebook" and why he struggles to write music now, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/3OsQVj2">https://bit.ly/3OsQVj2</a><br><br><em data-stringify-type="italic">The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p> <p> </p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>