Why You Are Restricting Your Desires in Your Relationship & How to Stop Blocking Yourself from the Happiness You Deserve with Lisa Bilyeu

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
May 3, 2024 1h 5m
Why You Are Restricting Your Desires in Your Relationship & How to Stop Blocking Yourself from the Happiness You Deserve with Lisa Bilyeu
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<p>How do you identify when you're restricting your desires in a relationship?</p> <p>How can couples work together to align their desires and ensure mutual fulfillment?</p> <p>Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa is a co-founder of the billion-dollar brand Quest Nutrition and the president of Impact Theory, a digital media company aimed at empowering content. With a strong focus on developing content that speaks to personal growth and empowerment, especially for women, Lisa has been a pivotal figure in shifting paradigms within her industry. Her show, "Women of Impact," addresses issues facing modern women, combining personal anecdotes with actionable advice.</p> <p>The core theme of this conversation is outlining a roadmap for individuals seeking to overcome insecurities and cultivate a resilient, action-oriented confidence. Jay and Lisa discuss the common misconceptions around confidence, emphasizing that it is not a prerequisite for action but a result of engaging with the world despite fears and doubts.</p> <p>Lisa shares how her initial need for external validation was a significant barrier to personal growth, sharing transformative moments that reshaped her understanding of confidence and self-worth. She stresses the importance of embracing imperfection and vulnerability as catalysts for genuine self-improvement and empowerment.</p> <p>In this interview, you'll learn:</p> <p>How to start building confidence</p> <p>How to validate yourself</p> <p>How to prioritize personal growth</p> <p>How to handle fear of judgment</p> <p>How to transform relationships</p> <p>Together, let's continue to&nbsp; question the preconceived notions about success and happiness and to take bold steps towards a life aligned with our deepest values and aspirations.</p> <p>With Love and Gratitude,</p> <p>Jay Shetty</p> <p>What We Discuss:</p> <p>00:00 Intro</p> <p>03:32 How Do You Define Confidence?</p> <p>06:54 Believe You&rsquo;re Capable</p> <p>09:54 Admitting That You&rsquo;re Unhappy</p> <p>16:13 The Frame of Reference</p> <p>19:36 Everything Is A Risk</p> <p>27:42 Non-Negotiables in Relationships</p> <p>34:41 Conversations That Don&rsquo;t Break Relationships</p> <p>41:30 Who Leads, Who Follows</p> <p>49:26 Conflicting Value System</p> <p>54:57 Don&rsquo;t Assume, Find a Compromise</p> <p>59:21 Growth Mindset With Your Partner</p> <p>Episode Resources:</p> <p>Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu">TikTok</a></p> <p>Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu">Instagram</a></p> <p>Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/WomenofImpact">YouTube</a></p> <p>Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu">Twitter</a></p> <p>Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu/">Facebook</a></p> <p>Lisa Bilyeu | <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisabilyeu/">LinkedIn</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Confidence-No-BS-Lessons-Becoming-ebook/dp/B09JPHK9C3?ref_=ast_author_dp&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Szh-ihjYzRGffB_o2B2eIw.HmsEk9RRZC7Zwqz0otgx6U7uKmmzY7on_Dwe8hhkatU&amp;dib_tag=AUTHOR">Radical Confidence: 10 No-BS Lessons on Becoming the Hero of Your Own Life</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>

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