Riz Ahmed: How to Silence Your Inner Critic (And Build REAL Self Worth)
About this episode
<p>The inner critic doesn't just disappear with more success.</p> <p>Academy Award-winning actor, writer, and artist Riz Ahmed shares why success, recognition, and achievement can never replace self-worth. He opens up about identity, shame, the inner critic, and the pressure to perform, revealing how life can start to feel like one long audition when your value depends on other people’s approval.</p> <p>Through a deeply personal health crisis and years of chasing validation, Riz discovered the power of vulnerability, gratitude, and self-acceptance. This conversation is a powerful reminder that true freedom begins when you stop proving yourself to the world and start defining your worth for yourself.</p> <p>In this episode you'll learn:</p> <p>How to Stop Seeking Constant Validation</p> <p>How to Quiet Your Inner Critic</p> <p>How to Find Flow Instead of Chasing Success</p> <p>How to Let Go of Who Others Expect You to Be</p> <p>How to Stay Grounded Through Life’s Highs and Lows</p> <p>How to Build Self-Worth Beyond Achievement</p> <p>How to Find Freedom in Vulnerability</p> <p>How to Live More Fully in the Present Moment</p> <p>Growth isn’t about becoming someone else; it’s about having the courage to be fully yourself. Keep showing up, keep learning, and trust that who you are is already enough.</p> <p>With Love and Gratitude,</p> <p>Jay Shetty</p> <p><strong>JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX</strong></p> <p><strong><em>Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe </em></strong><a href="https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe"><strong><em>https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe</em></strong></a><strong><em> </em></strong></p> <p><strong><em>Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! </em></strong><a href="https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast"><strong><em>https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast</em></strong></a><strong><em> </em></strong></p> <p><strong>What We Discuss:</strong></p> <p>00:00 Intro</p> <p>01:33 Rooting for Others Without Comparison</p> <p>04:01 The Danger of Seeking External Validation</p> <p>07:02 A Childhood Memory That Shaped Everything</p> <p>11:42 The Secret to Finding Flow</p> <p>18:29 Life Feels Like One Big Audition</p> <p>22:31 The Gap Between Who You Are and Who You Present</p> <p>25:05 Finding Freedom in the Imperfection </p> <p>27:49 One Story Does Not Define You</p> <p>32:07 When Life Falls Apart Overnight</p> <p>39:15 Facing Your Darkest Moments Alone</p> <p>46:44 Breaking Free from the Alpha Male Myth</p> <p>50:08 When Your Inner Critic Becomes Your Identity</p> <p>52:56 Managing the Voice Inside Your Head</p> <p>56:21 Why Does Time Go By Faster as We Grow Older?</p> <p>58:42 Home Is the People You Love</p> <p>01:01:55 Setting Boundaries to Protect Your Creativity </p> <p>01:04:29 Finding Where You Truly Belong</p> <p>01:10:04 Growing Up in Northwest London</p> <p>01:12:32 Riz on Final Five </p> <p><strong>Episode Resources:</strong></p> <p>YouTube | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/rizahmed">https://www.youtube.com/rizahmed</a> </p> <p>Facebook | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/RizAhmed/">https://www.facebook.com/RizAhmed/</a> </p> <p>Instagram | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/rizahmed">https://www.instagram.com/rizahmed</a></p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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