About this episode
<p>Do you feel like you're on your own side? Are you able to speak to yourself with kindness? Or stick up for yourself in front of others?</p> <p>That, my friend, is self-compassion and it can be incredibly hard to do. </p> <p>Dr Em says, "compassion" in Latin translates to “with suffering.” And SELF-compassion is how we relate, reflect and react when our self is suffering.</p> <p>In this episode, Dr Em talks about why cultivating a self-compassionate voice is SO DIFFICULT, but how it's also pivotal in getting us through our darkest moments.</p> <p>And we chat through whether self-compassion needs a re-brand? (Hugh's gunning for self-chop-out, but we're still taking recommendations?) </p> <p> </p> <p>To watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link: <a href="https://bit.ly/4gdli8B">https://bit.ly/4gdli8B</a> </p> <p>📖Books Josh hasn’t read (but definitely will at some point)</p> <ul> <li>Against Empathy - Paul Bloom - <a href="https://amzn.to/4g53tbR">https://amzn.to/4g53tbR</a></li> <li>Fierce Compassion - Kristin Neff - <a href="https://amzn.to/4cJESGI">https://amzn.to/4cJESGI</a></li> </ul> <p>🎧Things to listen to</p> <ul> <li>Brooke Blurton - The Path of Most Resilience - <a href="https://apple.co/4e8XmkP">https://apple.co/4e8XmkP</a></li> <li>Dr Emily - Who Is Your Inner Critic & Why Is It There? - <a href="https://apple.co/3XaFdw9">https://apple.co/3XaFdw9</a></li> </ul> <p>💻Things to check out</p> <ul> <li>Kristin Neff’s online resources - <a href="https://bit.ly/3XspqKL">https://bit.ly/3XspqKL</a></li> <li>Paul Gilbert’s review on Self-Compassion - <a href="https://bit.ly/3AQbJML">https://bit.ly/3AQbJML</a></li> </ul> <p>Dr Emily is a clinical psychologist and you can find out more about her here - <a href="https://bit.ly/4gesuBy">https://bit.ly/4gesuBy</a></p> <p>The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.</p><p>See <a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener">omnystudio.com/listener</a> for privacy information.</p>
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