Dating Expert: Why Dating Today Is Nearly Impossible & How to Find True Love

About this episode

<p>In this episode, you’re going to receive the best dating advice no one ever told you. </p><p>Whether you’re single, dating, in a relationship, or listening because you’re looking for advice for someone you love - this episode will change how you think about dating and love.</p><p>If you’re feeling discouraged, burned out, or you’re starting to wonder, “Am I ever going to find the right person?” or “Am I with the right person?” you’re not alone - and this episode is for you.</p><p>Today, Mel sits down with Logan Ury, who is a Harvard-trained behavioral scientist, world-renowned researcher, dating expert, bestselling author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love, and one of the most trusted voices on modern dating and relationships. Logan is a fan-favorite and Mel has brought her back on the show for a brand new episode all about dating.</p><p>She is going to give you the data, the psychology, and the tools you need to stop spiraling and start dating with confidence.</p><p>Logan breaks down why dating feels so hard in today’s world - and how to stop repeating patterns that keep you stuck. She will also cover topics like rejection, attachment, and commitment. </p><p>After today, you will know:</p><p>-The 8 questions that instantly help you choose a better partner <br />-What to text instead of ghosting - including a simple rejection text you can copy/paste<br />-How to have the “What are we?” conversation without begging, negotiating, or abandoning yourself</p><p>-How to break the anxious-avoidant loop that makes dating feel like chaos <br />-What “the ick” really is - and how it keeps you single when you say you want love<br />-How to stop dating burnout by dating more sustainably </p><p>After this episode, you’ll know how to build deeper connections, find and keep true love, </p><p>and show up as a better partner. </p><p>For more resources related to today’s episode, <a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-370/" target="_blank">click here</a> for the podcast episode page.  </p><p>If you liked the episode, check out Logan’s first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast: <a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-263/" target="_blank">The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You</a></p><p>For more dating and relationship advice, listen to this episode with Matthew Hussey: <a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-177/" target="_blank">The Brutal Truth About Relationships You Need to Hear</a></p><p>Connect with Mel:  </p><p> </p><ul><li><a href="https://puregeniusprotein.com/MP" target="_blank">Order Mel’s new product, Pure Genius Protein</a></li><li><a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/newsletter/" target="_blank">Get Mel’s newsletter, packed with tools, coaching, and inspiration.</a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401971369?tag=lnk0001-20&geniuslink=true" target="_blank">Get Mel’s #1 bestselling book, The Let Them Theory</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/45OWCNr" target="_blank">Watch the episodes on YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/3QfG8bb" target="_blank">Follow Mel on Instagram </a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/49bg4GP" target="_blank">The Mel Robbins Podcast Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/46Kpw2v" target="_blank">Mel's TikTok </a></li><li><a href="https://siriusxm.supportingcast.fm/" target="_blank">Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-free</a></li><li><a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/disclaimer" target="_blank">Disclaimer</a></li></ul><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>