8 Rules of Love & Why You Shouldn’t Ignore Them
About this episode
Today, I’d like to share with you some amazing news. I will be releasing a new book called, “8 Rules of Love”. I’ve been working on this for the past years and I am so excited to finally share it with everyone! In this episode, I get to answer some of the frequently asked questions about love and discuss some of the behind-the-scenes process in creating the book. Love is a word that gets thrown around easily – but do we really know the meaning of it? It might seem difficult to find and keep love but it wouldn’t be the case if we try to understand how diverse love can be. So can we really define love? If you want to pre-order the book, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/ Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 02:42 Why the number eight? 05:50 Why do we need rules? 07:34 A successful relationship 09:25 Creating, finding, and keeping love 13:54 Change & growth 17:00 How to let love go 18:36 Love is an important topic 21:05 Expect your relationship to change 22:43 “What if I like to be alone?” 24:53 Dating apps 26:24 Fear of rejection 27:08 Love is everywhere Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm  Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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