The child who learned to disappear is still running your adult relationships | Nicole LePera

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Become a Big Think member to unlock expert classes, premium print issues, exclusive events and more: https://bigthink.com/membership/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=membership&utm_content=bt-ytdesc-text-fi-lepera-8_ILxxufp78 Subscribe to Big Think on YouTube ► https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvQECJukTDE2i6aCoMnS-Vg?sub_confirmation=1 Up next, The blueprint for becoming an emotionally mature adult, in 68 minutes | Mark Manson: Full Interview ► https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Swxy4tUE3s Dr. Nicole LePera, the holistic psychologist and NYT bestselling author behind Reparenting the Inner Child, breaks down the 6 archetypes of childhood trauma. LePera explains why insight alone never produces lasting change and walks through the science of reparenting: The practice of stepping in as the adult presence you may never have had. 0:00 Chapter 1: The six archetypes of childhood trauma 3:02 Personality vs. survival patterns 10:47 The hidden trauma you didn’t know you had 17:31 The 6 childhood trauma archetypes that still control you 23:45 Chapter 2: The inner child 29:16 What your inner child actually is (it’s not what you think) 36:58 Chapter 3: Reparenting for lasting transformation 45:55 Reparenting: the skill that rewires your brain for good Read the video transcript ► https://bigthink.com/series/full-interview/childhood-wounds/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=youtube_description Purchase Nicole LePera's latest book ► https://bit.ly/4tdaOv7 Reparenting The Inner Child: The New Science of Our Oldest Wounds and How to Heal Them © Freethink Media Inc., All Rights Reserved. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Go Deeper with Big Think: ►Become a Big Think Youtube Member Get exclusive classes and early, ad-free access to new releases without leaving Youtube. https://www.youtube.com/@bigthink/membership/ ►Become a Big Think Web Member Get the entire Big Think Class library, premium print issues, live events, and more. https://bigthink.com/membership/ ►Subscribe to Big Think on Substack Get all of your favorite Big Think content delivered to your inbox. https://bigthinkmedia.substack.com/subscribe/ ►Listen to Big Think Interviews on Spotify Insights from the world's biggest thinkers, now as a podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/7KRYoRD1NdF2aoQcBMyPlb ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- About Nicole LePera: Dr. Nicole LePera is a Holistic Psychologist and Founder of the virtual healing platform, SelfHealers Circle. She's the author of The New York Times Bestselling book: "How To Do The Work" and "How to Meet Your Self." Dr. LePera also hosts SelfHealers Soundboard, a weekly ad-free podcast. She's the creator of the popular movement #selfhealers. Every day she releases free content to make healing and trauma education accessible, globally.