Origin Story with David McIntosh Jr

#128 Stuart Trevor - AllSaints Founder's Origin Story

<p>In this episode, I sit down with Stuart Trevor, the founder of AllSaints and his new label, STUART TREVOR. </p><p><br /></p><p>We explore his Scottish upbringing and how the values instilled by the Mormon church shaped his fashion journey. Stuart shares insights on the importance of sustainability in today’s industry, the evolving perception of vintage clothing, and how he navigated challenges throughout his career. </p><p><br /></p><p>Learn about what it takes to build a global brand, what it is like dressing Guns N Roses and how to know when to cash out of a behemoth brand.</p><p><br /></p><p>Join us to discover his vision for the future of fashion and the role of creativity in building a successful brand.</p><p><br /></p><p>Get in touch by heading to:</p><p><br /></p><p>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr/?hl=en-gb</p><p>E-mail: https://developmentbydavid.co.uk/contact/</p><p><br /></p><p>Sponsors:</p><p><br /></p><p>Conatum Coffee -</p><p><br /></p><p>Head along to Conatum for hard-hitting coffee to fuel your hardwork: https://conatum-brand.com/</p>

#127 VIDEO VLOG: Day in the Life of A Podcaster

<p>In this week's upload, I am taking you behind-the-scenes of a Day in the Life of a podcaster. I work full time at a multi-billion pound consultancy firm and I spend weekends trying to make this podcast happen at the biggest and best level I can. There are many moving parts - routines, workouts, setup - and many people that make it happen including Andres the Videographer who joins me to discuss some of our favourite moments working on the pod. I wanted to share this encourage you all to start the side hustle by giving you an insight into mine. With love David Jr. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr/?hl=en-gb</p>

#126 David Millar - Why Fatherhood Matters And How To Become a Better Dad

<p>My guest is David Millar -a Men’s Work Coach, the Owner of Mantra Menswork and a Dad.</p><p>We delve into the evolving landscape of fatherhood, addressing what it truly means to be a dad today.</p><p>David discusses key responsibilities that define successful fathers and examines how these roles have changed across generations.</p><p>David shares personal challenges he faced when becoming a father and reflects on how this journey transformed his relationship with his own dad.</p><p>The conversation also touches on media portrayals of fathers and their impact on boys' perceptions of masculinity, as well as the need for community among modern men.</p><p>David explores accountability in personal growth and parenting, societal views on commitment, and whether boys today have the freedom to be themselves.</p><p>He shares his decision to homeschool his children, critiques traditional education systems, and discusses common challenges faced by men at his retreat, Mantra.</p><p>Finally, David highlights the unique support men's groups provide and shares transformative experiences from clients that underscore the importance of men's work. This episode encourages fathers to actively participate in redefining masculinity for future generations.</p><p>--</p><p>In this episode of the podcast, I sit down with <strong>David Millar. David is</strong> a Men’s Work Coach and the owner of <strong>Mantra Menswork.</strong></p><p>We explore the evolving landscape of fatherhood. We discuss what it truly means to be a dad today, delving into the key responsibilities that define successful fathers and how these roles have shifted across generations.</p><p>David shares his personal challenges in becoming a father and reflects on how this journey transformed his relationship with his own dad. We also examine the impact of media portrayals of fathers on boys' perceptions of masculinity and the vital need for community among modern men.</p><p>Throughout our conversation, David emphasizes accountability in personal growth and parenting, questioninghttps://www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr/ societal views on commitment and whether boys today have the freedom to express themselves fully. He discusses his decision to homeschool his children, critiques traditional education systems, and highlights common challenges faced by men at his retreat, Mantra.</p><p>Finally, we explore the unique support that men's groups provide and share transformative experiences from David's clients that underscore the importance of men's work. This episode encourages fathers to actively participate in redefining masculinity for future generations.</p><p>Connect with David: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/davidrossmillar/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/davidrossmillar/</a></p><p>Connect with Me: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr/</a></p>

#125 BEMZ - Scottish Hip-Hop, Celtic Football Club, Killer Mike and 50,000 Crowds

<p>This week guest is BBC Scotland's Act of the Year <strong>Bemz. Bemz. </strong>Bemz is a hip-artist, performer and a old friend.</p> <p>In this candid conversation, Bemz shares insights on:</p> <ul> <li><strong>Public vs. Private Life</strong>: How does he navigate his public persona while keeping his personal life under wraps?</li> <li><strong>Behind the Scenes</strong>: Discover one surprising thing fans might not know about him and explore common misconceptions.</li> <li><strong>Community Building</strong>: The significance of fostering a community around his music, including his experiences at festivals and with brands like Celtic.</li> <li><strong>The Music Industry in Scotland</strong>: Bemz opens up about the challenges of fame, the realities of being your own manager, and the financial aspects of the rap industry.</li> <li><strong>Collaborations and Influences</strong>: Hear about his connections with artists like The Snuts, Killer Mike and Adidas.</li> </ul> <ul> <li><strong>Personal Life</strong>: A glimpse into his role as a dad and how it influences his music and authenticity.</li> <li><strong>Scottish Rap Scene</strong>: Will Scottish rap gain more prominence? Bemz discusses his impact on the scene and the potential for growth.</li> <li><strong>Creative Process</strong>: Learn about his songwriting methods and how he crafts lyrics that resonate with listeners.</li> <li><strong>Awards and Recognition</strong>: Reflecting on accolades like the Scottish Act of the Year and his participation in events like Transmit.</li> </ul> <p><br /></p> <p>Big love to my mate Bemz for coming back on the show.</p> <p>--</p> <p>This episode is sponsored by Handsome Jacks Finnieston. Get along for the cleanest haircut in Glasgow. Situated on Argyle Street - visit Handsome Jacks Finnieston.</p> <p><br /></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/handsomejacks.finnieston/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><br />Handsome Jack's Finnieston (@handsomejacks.finnieston)Instagram · handsomejacks.finnieston710+ followers</a></p> <p><br /></p> <p>--</p> <p>Follow me: ww.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr</p> <p>Support the podcast on Patreon (and get this early) www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid</p>

#124 SOLO Q&A

<p>To celebrate hitting another year, I've gathered questions from across social media platforms to bring you an extended Q&amp;A session. </p><p><br /></p><p>I'll be tackling a wide range of topics, from personal insights to my podcasting journey, and everything in between.</p><p><br /></p><p>Expect to learn about my relationship with alcohol, my dreams for the podcast, and what success means to me. </p><p>I'll share some behind-the-scenes stories from my recent Gymshark speaking gig and hanging out with Example. </p><p>You'll also hear my thoughts on work-life balance, my biggest struggles , and even who has. my favourite moustache.</p><p>We'll dive into the evolution of my podcasting goals, the biggest lessons I've learned along the way, and how I'm balancing growth with staying true to my vision. </p><p><br /></p><p>I'll reflect on proud moments, challenges I've faced, and how my beliefs have been challenged over the past year.</p><p><br /></p><p>For those curious about my comedy journey, I'll update you on my progress since that first Q&amp;A where I promised to try stand-up. </p><p><br /></p><p>You'll hear about my best and worst heckles, and which comedians inspire me most.</p><p><br /></p><p>We'll also touch on some more serious topics, like current struggles, and what I'd tell my younger self if I could. </p><p><br /></p><p>Plus, I'll share my thoughts on Chris Williamson, Jimmy Carr and other heroes of mine and reveal my dream podcast guests.</p><p><br /></p><p>Thanks for the love! Hope you enjoy,</p><p>David x</p><p><br /></p><p>-- </p><p><br /></p><p>This episode is sponsored by Vybey:</p><p>With meals starting at just £1.50, <strong>vybey</strong> is the easy, delicious choice for anyone who values their time and health.<br />Try it today and get 15% off with the code DBYD at <a href="http://vybey.com.au/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">vybey.com.au</a> or <a href="http://vybey.co.uk/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">vybey.co.uk</a>.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>

#123 Nick Yarris - 22 Years on Death-row as an Innocent Man

<p>Nick Yarris is a speaker, writer and ex-death row inmate.</p><p><br /></p><p>I had the privilege of sitting down with Nick Yarris in London. Nick spent 22 years on death row for a murder he didn't commit.</p><p><br /></p><p>Nick is an author, motivational speaker, and the subject of the documentary film "Fear of 13," available on Netflix. He's also the inspiration for a play currently running in London, starring Adrien Brody.</p><p><br /></p><p>At 21, after enduring a violent childhood, Nick found himself in a situation that led to his wrongful conviction and life sentence.</p><p><br /></p><p>In the 1980s, prisons and guards were notoriously harsh to convicts of such crimes. Enforced silences, caged dog-fights, guard beatdowns, and "quality time" with psychopaths were commonplace.</p><p><br /></p><p>Nick became the FBI's Most Wanted Man after a prison escape but soon turned himself back in.</p><p>He promised his mother he wouldn't waste his time on death row becoming embittered by his wrongful accusation.</p><p><br /></p><p>Nick became both the kindest and most dangerous man on death row.</p><p><br /></p><p>He taught himself to read in prison, becoming a student of language and religion. He wrote letters home to family, friends, and lawyers of other inmates.</p><p><br /></p><p>His eloquent and powerful communication led him to become the first death row inmate to request DNA testing.</p><p><br /></p><p>As a result, Nick was exonerated in 2004 after DNA technology proved his innocence.</p><p>Nick spent 22 years behind the toughest bars for another man's crime.</p><p><br /></p><p>He was tortured mentally and physically for an act he did not commit.</p><p><br /></p><p>Yet, Nick tells me, "Death row is like a fond memory to me. I am no longer disturbed by what happened to me."</p><p><br /></p><p>Since his release, Nick has become an author, anti-death penalty activist, and inspiring public speaker.</p><p><br /></p><p>He uses his pain as his purpose.</p><p><br /></p><p>He uses his pain to connect.</p><p><br /></p><p>Five years ago, after seeing Nick on Joe Rogan, I reached out before I started my podcast.</p><p>I thanked him, we connected, and we've been friends since.</p><p><br /></p><p>His story isn't just about survival—it's about thriving against impossible odds and emerging triumphant from trauma.</p><p><br /></p><p>This episode hits hard. Prepare for tears.</p><p><br /></p><p>---</p><p><br /></p><p>Sponsors:</p><p><br /></p><p>Thanks Finnieston clothing in Glasgow for sponsoring this episode - https://finniestonclothing.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoo6PMx7H5ckHcQILm2wcGAT-bNC9pMAXfRlFiSi3B2ECXKxpShb</p><p><br /></p><p>Thanks to David Millar at Mantra Menswork for sponsoring this episode - https://mantra-menswork.mykajabi.com/man-alive?preview_theme_id=2155765370</p><p><br /></p><p>Find Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr/?hl=en</p><p>Find Me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@developmentbydavid?lang=en</p><p><br /></p><p>Support the Podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid</p><p>Subscribe to my newsletter: [https://developmentbydavid.substack](https://developmentbydavid.substack/).</p>

#122 Dr Anna Machin - Why Do We Love? Compatibility, Kissing and Cheating

<p>In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Anna Machin, an evolutionary anthropologist at the University of Oxford and expert on the science of love.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Love - that mysterious, powerful force that has inspired countless works of art, literature, and music. But what exactly is love from a scientific perspective? Dr. Machin will help us unravel the evolutionary purpose of love and explain why it&#39;s critical to our survival as a species.We&#39;ll dive deep into the neurochemistry of love, exploring the roles of oxytocin, dopamine, and other hormones in forming and maintaining romantic relationships. </p> <p><br></p> <p>Dr. Machin will also shed light on how love differs across cultures and whether humans are truly designed for monogamy.</p>

#121 Albert-László Barabási - The Science Behind Why People Succeed

<p>Albert-László Barabási is a renowned Physicist and Scientist, Professor at Northeastern University in Boston, TED Speaker, Author and is known for his scientific discovery of Network Science, Scale-free networks and the Barabasi-Albert model.</p> <p>His book The Formula: The Universal Laws of Success is my favourite book of all time.</p> <p>Why do some people succeed and others don’t? Whats the difference between performance and success? Why does a small percentage of artists receive disproportionate amounts of reward? How does one piece of art make exhibition walls and other the recycle bin? Why does the last interviewee for a job have greater chances of getting the job? Does creativity expire with age?</p> <p>There is a science to all of this. It’s called Network Science. Today, my guest is the most notable figure in its history - Laszlo Barabasi.</p> <p>Follow me on Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr">www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr</a></p> <p>Subscribe to the Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid">www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid</a></p> <p>Buy me a coffee: <a href="http://buymeacoffee.com/developmentbydavid">buymeacoffee.com/developmentbydavid</a></p> <p>This episode is sponsored by <a href="http://Hot-Tottie.com">Hot-Tottie.com</a></p> <p><br></p>

#120 George TheTinMen - The Ugly Truth about Men and Boys Mental Health

<p>George is a advocate for men &amp; boys, a blogger, a podcaster and a writer.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Men and boy’s are suffering in silence and statistically the biggest threat to men’s health is us. </p> <p><br></p> <p>But what are the often-overlooked issues facing men today and whose problem is it to fix them?</p> <p><br></p> <p>In this episode, we discuss the alarming statistics, including high suicide rates and the stigmas that often prevent men from seeking help. </p> <p><br></p> <p>George emphasises the importance of redefining masculinity, advocating for emotional literacy, and fostering supportive communities where men can openly discuss their struggles without fear of judgment. Expect to learn: - Understanding Men&#39;s Mental Health: Gain insights into the pressing issues men face today, including the societal pressures and damaging narratives that contribute to mental health struggles and high suicide rates. - Redefining Masculinity - Learn about the evolving definition of masculinity and the cultural changes needed to foster healthier expressions of manhood in contemporary society. - Impact of Social Media: Explore how social media influences male self-perception and mental health, exacerbating feelings of loneliness and inadequacy. - Combating Loneliness: Discover practical steps men can take to combat loneliness and build meaningful connections through community engagement and emotional literacy. - Supporting Each Other and Women: Understand how men can better support one another and women in their struggles. I understand this is a heavy episode and listener discretion is advised as stories and stats might be perceived as sensitive. TheTinMen Blog - [<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqazU0eVRieXJ4RTZFN0liYUkwcXprYkxFeXFOUXxBQ3Jtc0tuREo4Tk83dGZtd2MtRjlJWDR2MHlaZFAxalFaZEtRb3JBckxSY1hvS1VZQ3BFSmtmZ2E3M1RiZzdXUm01ekZqcmNPdFFkcVFjR2Y4TER0ZE9ZeGFhWFhtNUZ3Q2ZkY2VYRDFaN3dZN2RaT1UtQTQzTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fthetinmen.blog%2F&v=55ob298F7NU" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">https://thetinmen.blog</a>](<a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbE5ac3FhRmlyUm9pM0ZyRGpndUEzbmhmTUlnd3xBQ3Jtc0tuSlllSHk4cFlkSi1ZOVVzSjMybWVBNGZzLThfeGtKXzN3UUE5YkdyakV4MEdyQzlLSWJabEZkbDM2bllPNnRYdy1jTmVvRkU1b0dpeC15ZTRLaVZ5Z1B6Mk1Bb3lXczhRdVRJeFNJRXBwVlNFVEc1dw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fthetinmen.blog%2F&v=55ob298F7NU" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">https://thetinmen.blog/</a>) George’s Instagram - @TheTinMen Sponsors: Thanks Finnieston clothing in Glasgow for sponsoring this episode - <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa1FmVWJGS0VoejZjYjFRMVFSQm92THhBTjJjd3xBQ3Jtc0tsTmRhbnNnSHlrTnE5bWh4YVZWTjFUSFFmS19LVWZGWjlEOUNadV9vVnFkZlNHRTQyb3IwYkcwVU12NXhkTVFCcGt2MGVIZ3J5NTJMWTRPZEJ1Y3VtdElmS2FLTElmVld4Ynd1bFozS3dITUN5a0RNZw&q=https%3A%2F%2Ffinniestonclothing.com%2F%3Fsrsltid%3DAfmBOoo6PMx7H5ckHcQILm2wcGAT-bNC9pMAXfRlFiSi3B2ECXKxpShb&v=55ob298F7NU" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">https://finniestonclothing.com/?srslt...</a> Thanks to David Millar at Mantra Menswork for sponsoring this episode - <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa0Y0LWRkRVFSdEFpM004NjlUQWY3ak1TeXNZZ3xBQ3Jtc0tuVE85OFBOSjYzNEczOEtuVzAyLTRpeDBmZnQ0YmVfMkZvQzhFQ1M5dHhoR2tjcG1EdGV0cTF4Q2dWWWIyZlQwdFVHczdwX0dJdjhWNkNoeUlSZU5OR09Ya0tLLXFlZWlXRk5VUFZFUURjQmVsQmktZw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmantra-menswork.mykajabi.com%2Fman-alive%3Fpreview_theme_id%3D2155765370&v=55ob298F7NU" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">https://mantra-menswork.mykajabi.com/...</a></p>

#119 Janey Godley - Lessons from 30 Years in Scottish Comedy

<p>Janey Godley is a renowned Scottish stand-up comedian, actress, and writer. I met her in a cafe in Glasgow and we recorded this impromptu podcast!</p> <p>Growing up in a challenging environment in Shettleston Glasgow, she left school at 16 and began her comedy career in 1994.</p> <p>Godley has gained acclaim for her unique humor and storytelling, winning multiple awards, including the &quot;Best Show Concept&quot; at the New Zealand International Comedy Festival.</p> <p>She is also known for her viral social media presence and her poignant voice-overs of ex-first minister Nicola Sturgeon. </p> <p>Her autobiography, Handstands in the Dark, reflects her journey through adversity and triumph.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Janey has won multiple awards including the Sir Billy Connolly Spirit of Glasgow Award in 2023.</p>

#118 Steven Kotler - Fix Your Focus, Enter Peak Performance & Stop Procrastinating

<p>Steven Kotler is a New York Times bestselling author and award-winning journalist, he has penned 12 bestsellers, including The Art of Impossible and Stealing Fire. He is a pioneer in the theory of “flow”. His groundbreaking work has been nominated for three Pulitzer Prizes and translated into over 40 languages, reaching audiences worldwide through major publications like Wired and TIME.</p><p><br /></p><p>Expect to learn:</p><p><br /></p><p>What is Flow? Steven defines flow and its essential role in enhancing performance across various aspects of life.</p><p><br /></p><p>Neurobiology of Flow: Discover the brain processes and chemicals involved in flow, and learn how to identify your personal flow triggers.</p><p><br /></p><p>Making it real: Steven shares actionable techniques to integrate flow into everyday activities and discusses the importance of active recovery.</p><p><br /></p><p>Dark Side of Flow: Explore common misconceptions about flow and strategies to manage anxiety for better access to flow states.</p><p><br /></p><p>Future Insights: Steven discusses the role of empathy in performance, the impact of technology on flow, and exciting directions for future research.</p><p><br /></p><p>Check out the Flow Research Collective - https://www.flowresearchcollective.com/</p><p>Check out Steven's website - https://www.stevenkotler.com/</p><p><br /></p><p>Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr</p><p><br /></p><p>Subscribe to the Patreon: www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid</p><p><br /></p><p>Buy me a coffee: buymeacoffee.com/developmentbydavid</p>

#117 Luke Kidgell - Weird Heckles, World Tours and Deep Fried Mars Bars

<p>Luke Kidgell is world-touring Australian Comedian and Podcaster. With over 3 million fans and five national tours, Luke combines humour, relatable experiences and crowd-work which makes him a viral sensation on TikTok and Youtube.Luke was in Glasgow for his world tour Happy Hour. He stopped by the studio the night after his show at the Pavilion Theatre. Find Luke on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukekidgell/?hl=enFind Luke on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luke.kidgell?lang=enFind Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr/?hl=enFind Me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@developmentbydavid?lang=enSupport the Podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavidSubscribe to my newsletter: https://developmentbydavid.substack.com/</p>

#116 Campbell McLaren - UFC’s SECRET Founder

<p>Campbell McLaren is the Creator and Co-Founder of the UFC, Current CEO and Founder of Hispanic MMA Franchise Combate Global and TV Executive.</p><p>All the way from the US, McLaren joins me in Glasgow, Scotland to share insider stories about the birth of the UFC, the evolution of MMA, the creation of the Octogon and his strategies for reaching untapped audiences in the sport.</p><p>He shares why the UFC became the BIGGEST threat to the U.S in the 90s, his story of hiring Joe Rogan as the UFC’s commentator and Arnold Schwarzenegger’s key involvement in the creation of the sport.</p><p>He also opens with his struggles that include being forced out of the UFC, the takeover by Dana White and Zuffa and his battles with health - including being granted 4% chance to live.</p><p>With his unique perspective and wealth of experience, McLaren offers invaluable insights into the business of combat sports and building superstars.</p><ul> <li><br /></li></ul><p>Follow Campbell: <a href="http://instagram.com/campbellcombate" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">instagram.com/campbellcombate</a></p><p>Follow Me: <a href="http://instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr</a></p><ul> <li><br /></li></ul><p>Support the podcast: <a href="http://patreon.com/developmentbydavid" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">patreon.com/developmentbydavid</a></p><ul> <li><br /></li></ul><p>Join my mailing list: <a href="http://developmentbydavid.substack.com" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">developmentbydavid.substack.com</a></p><ul> <li><br /></li></ul><p>SPONSOR:</p><p>NewLifeMMA Glasgow: <a href="https://www.newlifeglasgow.com/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.newlifeglasgow.com/</a></p>

#115 Nina Nesbitt - What They Didn't Tell Me About Fame

Nina Nesbitt is a world touring Scottish Singer and song-writer. Shot in Edinburgh before her BBC recording, Nina joined me to share intimate details about her early life, career beginnings, and her love for Scotland. We explore the impact of her move to London, and the challenges of navigating fame at a young age. She opens up about the highs and lows of signing to a major label but how it feels to be dropped by them. And, how she independently pioneered her way to 1 billion streams. Nina bravely talks openly about her struggles with body-image and how she found self-compassion and self-love. She chats to me about supporting Stevie Knicks, being recognised by Taylor Swift, her duet with Coldplay and her public relationship with ex-partner Ed Sheeran. Lastly, she shares her personal growth that has shaped her latest album, "Mountain Music." Join us for an honest, introspective conversation about identity, creativity, and the power of staying true to oneself in the ever-changing landscape of the music industry. Pre-save Nina's amazing new album: https://found.ee/NNMountainMusic Follow Nina on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ninanesbitt/ Get in touch with me: https://www.instagram.com/davidmcintosjr/ Shot at Monkey Barrell Comedy Club Edinburgh. Edited by Andres McNeill   Sponsor: West Coast Motors - The best place for used cars in Scotland. West is Best! Get a good deal on your new ride - https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/ Tell them David McIntosh Sent you!

#114 Dr Robert Glover - Being a Nice Guy is Killing Your Love Life

Dr. Robert Glover is a renowned therapist, coach, and author with over 40 years of experience in relationships. He wrote the bestselling book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and has helped thousands of men worldwide improve their relationships, careers, and sex lives. Dr. Glover opens with addressing the problem of being a Nice Guy, providing a raw and honest perspective on the challenges and triumphs of breaking free from this toxically ashamed pattern. He defines modern masculinity and femininity and addresses common misconceptions about attraction across the sexes. This episode promises to be a game-changer for men seeking to improve their relationships and live more authentic lives. Whether you're a man grappling with Nice Guy tendencies or simply curious about relationship dynamics, this conversation with Dr. Glover is sure to provide valuable insights and actionable advice. And is a hell of a good laugh too. Dr Glover is just an A star guest. A total expert in his field and has story for days. He will be back on the show no doubt. We went for nearly 2 hours and only stopped because his lawyer chapped his door. Find Dr Robert Glover, and his support, at - https://drglover.com Find me - www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr Support the podcast - patreon.com/developmentbydavid

#113 David Robson - 13 Strategies To Improve Your Social Life

<p>David Robson is an award-winning British science writer and author who specializes in exploring the extremes of the human brain, body, and behavior.</p> <p><br></p> <p>He has written extensively for publications like the BBC and The Guardian, covering topics in medicine, psychology, and neuroscience. Robson is the author of the books &quot;The Intelligence Trap&quot; and &quot;The Expectation Effect,&quot; the latter of which won a British Psychological Society Book Award and was a Financial Times Best Book of 2022. With a background in mathematics from the University of Cambridge, Robson brings an analytical and in-depth approach to his writing on the human mind and behavior.</p> <p>&quot;Social connection is more important than obesity, smoking, and exercise combined!&quot;</p> <p><br></p> <p>Are you tired of feeling lonely and disconnected? Discover the shocking truth about how being social can boost your health, creativity, and even finances! In this groundbreaking podcast, David reveals: ⚡️ The &quot;Liking Gap&quot; that&#39;s sabotaging your relationships (and how to fix it!) ⚡️ Weird conversation mistakes you&#39;re making that kill rapport ⚡️ The gratitude gap: Why you&#39;re not getting enough compliments (and how to change that) ⚡️ The powerful &quot;Benjamin Franklin Effect&quot; to make anyone like you ⚡️ Mindblowing reasons you should brag about your successes ⚡️ Simple tricks to overcome ego-centric thinking </p> <p>And reveals the #1 most important law of connection that can transform your life. </p> <p><br></p> <p>Follow Me: https://www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid/ Follow Nathaniel. - https://www.instagram.com/nathanielcollins/ Sponsor - West Coast Motors - https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/ Patreon - www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid</p>

#112 Nathaniel Collins - How to Make Sacrifices and Build an Athlete's Mind

My guest this week is Nathaniel "The Nightmare" Collins, the British, Commonwealth, and European Champion Featherweight boxer. Ranked number 4 in the UK by the WBC, Nathaniel shares his journey from humble beginnings to becoming a top-tier athlete. In this episode we cover: Tyson Fury vs Oleksander Usyk: We kick off with Nathaniel’s thoughts on last night's epic fight where Usyk won by split decision. Recent Victory: Fresh from his win for the European Featherweight Title, Nathaniel discusses the highs and lows of the fight, including battling through a broken nose and the road to recovery. Upbringing and Beginnings: Was Nathaniel a violent child? He opens up about his early days, reasons for getting into boxing, and the amateur scene in Glasgow. Transition to Professional Boxing: From the changes in lifestyle to hypnotherapy, Nathaniel shares insights into his professional journey and what lies ahead. Personal Reflections: The impact of boxing on relationships, being a dad, and the intense lifestyle of a professional boxer. Health and Safety: We delve into injuries, CTE concerns, and the role of violence in sport. Dream Matchup: Who does Nathaniel want to face next? -- Follow Me: https://www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid/ Follow Nathaniel. - https://www.instagram.com/nathanielcollins/ Sponsor - West Coast Motors - https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/ Patreon - www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid

#111 Will Storr - The Dark Psychology of Status, Cults and Neo-Nazis

<p>Will Storr is a Journalist and Award-Winning Author of The Status Game, Selfie, The Heretics and the Science of Story Telling.</p> <p><br></p> <p>If you are low-status, you are more 4x more likely to die early. Status is proven to be more important than diet or exercise for health outcomes..</p> <p><br></p> <p>Status is not just a modern phenomenon; it&#39;s a fundamental part of the human experience, existing long before our current society. As writer Will Storr explains, the need for status and respect from others is not merely a luxury—it&#39;s an essential psychological and biological requirement for humans to thrive. He calls it the original currency.</p> <p>Throughout history, status hierarchies have existed in animal societies, serving as a means to organise social life and prevent constant conflict. From our tribal ancestors to modern civilization, the desire for status has deeply shaped human behavior and social structures.</p> <p>But despite its importance, the topic of status often makes people feel uneasy. While discussions about connection and belonging are more comfortable, status remains a somewhat taboo subject. It&#39;s this discomfort that has perhaps led to fewer books being written about this universal human drive.</p> <p>However, Storr&#39;s work aims to shed light on this fundamental aspect of the human condition, unraveling its complexities and unveiling its significance in our lives.</p> <p>Also, join us to hear about the psychology of cults, why architechts are the most illusive modern day cult, Will’s experience from going undercover following Neo-Nazi’s to understand the madness of groupthink and his experiences of David Irving the infamous holocaust denier.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Will’s books: The Status Game: On Human Life and How to Play It</p> <p><a href="https://amzn.to/41R6rsL">https://amzn.to/41R6rsL</a></p> <p>Selfie: How the West Became Self-Obsessed</p> <p><a href="https://amzn.to/41cJ2BL">https://amzn.to/41cJ2BL</a></p> <p>The Science of Storytelling: Why Stories Make Us Human, and How to Tell Them Better</p> <p><a href="https://amzn.to/3ohtxKo">https://amzn.to/3ohtxKo</a></p> <p><br></p> <p>Signup to my Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid">⁠https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid⁠</a></p> <p><br></p> <p>SPONSORS:</p> <p><br></p> <p>Vybey (code DBYD for 15%) - https://vybey.co.uk/?shpxid=fd5d5aab-fd5f-48d9-bf37-b58aa4317f25West Coast Motors - https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/</p>

#110 Jimmy Carr - How to Live a Better Life

Jimmy Carr is an world-touring comedian, writer, author, TV host for shows including, ‘8 Out Of 10 Cats’, ‘Roast Battle’, and ‘Big Fat Quiz Of The Year’. He is a hero of mine.For this episode, headed from Glasgow to London to have a conversation with the deepest thinker, hardest worker, and kindest soul in comedy.Beyond the dark mask you've seen on stage and on TV, Jimmy's origin story is complex, and his thinking is philosophical. I was blown away by how he has turned his remarkable life story into a set of lessons for us all to take onward.Despite how he presents himself, Jimmy’s story is one that begins as a working-class Irish immigrant in Slough and will inevitably end with him being cemented as a legend when his physical being is no longer around.But, the path there has not always been as straightforward as it seems.Jimmy shares with me the intimate details of grieving his mother, facing the wrath of public cancellation, and wrestling with dyslexia.He also astounded me with novel ideas around comedy’s role in society, how to serve your future self, and the importance of experiential learning.Filmed in the very basement where I first fell in love with stand-up, this episode is a full-circle moment. And with stunning cinematography by the talented Andres, it's a visual feast.My sister and I used to watch Jimmy in our miserable tiny house in a council estate in Ayrshire, and now I had the opportunity to bring her to meet her hero too.Jimmy was my gateway drug to comedy. And, as Jimmy professes, comedians are drug dealers.But, the drug prescribed by Jimmy in this episode isn’t one of laughter (despite there being plenty) but a drug that allows you to become the future you, today.You can become a Patreon here:⁠https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid⁠You can watch Jimmy’s new Netflix stand-up special, ’Jimmy Carr: Natural Born Killer’, out on the 16th April 2024.You can purchase tickets for Jimmy’s brand-new international tour, ’Jimmy Carr: Laughs Funny’, here:⁠https://bit.ly/49u9iex⁠Follow Jimmy:Twitter -⁠https://bit.ly/4awtUEe⁠Instagram -⁠https://bit.ly/3PULKbt⁠YouTube -⁠https://bit.ly/3xrXsEc

#109 Ruari Fairbairns - There is NO HEALTHY level of Alcohol Consumption

<p>Ruari Fairbairns is co-founder of One Year No Beer, a subscription-based platform promoting an alcohol-free lifestyle with over 100,000 global members. Quickly, GET THIS EPISODE AND EVERY EPISODE EARLY BY SIGNING UP TO PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavidThis episode explores the gradual transformation of society's relationship with alcohol, highlighting the need for heightened awareness of its negative impacts on mind and body. It delves into discussions on stress, trauma, ADHD, emotional sobriety, and the pivotal role of community in the transformative journey towards an alcohol-free lifestyle.The insights stem from Ruari’s turbulent and emotionally challenging childhood on the Isle of Mull in Scotland whcih saw him attempt suicide as early as 14. Who would know a letter to Richard Branson, who he then later met in Barbados, would change and save his life.This episode dives deep on the effects on alchohol and what it does to our body in mind. We expose the risks of casual drinking and show that alchohol by no means results in stress management. We also talk about the sober curious lifestyle which acts as a far better way to to reap the rewards of a sober lifestyle without the need for abstinence. 94% of people surveyed want to have a better relationship with alcohol do not want to quit.So, how do we have a more booze conscious culture. What are some of the low hanging fruits to reeping a time rich life in a time poor economy. How can you have a better relationship with your family, body and mind.Join Ruari and I who will give you the tools you need.</p>

#108 Dr Meg Jay - How Overdiagnosis is Stealing Young Adults

Dr Meg Jay is back. Dr Meg Jay is a clinical psychologist, best-selling author and TED talk phenomenon. Her new book "The Twenty Something Treatment" is a lifeline for a demographic who are struggling most with over diagnosis and over prescription. Dive into the intricacies of the twentysomething experience with Dr. Meg Jay as she unpacks vital topics on mental health, relationships, and personal growth in this engaging podcast episode. From the impact of societal causes on young minds to the challenges of navigating love and intimacy, Dr. Jay offers practical insights and strategies for thriving in the tumultuous journey of adulthood. Join me as I explore key questions surrounding identity, purpose, and emotional maturity, providing listeners with invaluable guidance for navigating life's complexities. Send this to a 20-something year old or someone who is close to one! If you enjoyed this follow me on Instagram and get in touch: www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid Buy Dr Meg Jays New Book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Twentysomething-Treatment-Revolutionary-Remedy-Uncertain/dp/1668012294

#107 Tracy Garrad - "Can Nice Girls Get The Corner Office?" - Aviva CEO on Gender and Socioeconomic Background

<p>Tracy Garrad is CEO of Aviva Canada and has held CEO positions at HSBC, First Direct and AXA Health. She is a board member of Progress Together.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Tracy Garrad joins us to share her remarkable journey from a working-class upbringing in Blackpool to becoming a successful leader in the financial services industry. Tracy reflects on the lessons learned from caring for her siblings, the challenges she faced as a female leader, and the importance of diversity and inclusion in leadership. </p> <p><br></p> <p>She discusses the difference between leadership and management, her experiences with education, and the evolving landscape of the C-suite.</p> <p><br></p> <p> Tracy also delves into the role of transparent storytelling in leadership, the importance of mentorship, and the ongoing quest for work-life balance. </p> <p><br></p> <p><br></p>

#106 Jacob Hawley - What Can You Joke About These Days?

<p>Jacob Hawley is a stand-up comedian, podcaster, football pundit and Arsenal fan. You might know him from Russell Howards Hour, True Geordie’s The Kick Off, BBC Sounds Jacob Hawley on Drugs or Talksport.</p><p>In a new age where opinions carry more weight than deeds, whose job is it to change the course of public thought toward a healthier society?</p><p>Comedians are under more pressure than ever to portray the role of modern day activists. We find comedians being cancelled as their jokes are being taking as beliefs and their characters being portrayed as villians.</p><p>We cover: Politics for idiots, feminism for lads, love stories for louts and self-care for those who don’t care.</p><p>In this episode, hear Jacob’s thoughts on:</p><ul> <li>The evolving role of comedians in shaping societal norms</li> <li>Effective communication of ideologies across diverse demographics</li> <li>Creating inclusive spaces for LGBTQ+ and non-gender-conforming individuals</li> <li>The transformative power of comedy in sparking empathy and understanding</li> <li>Aesthetics, Appearance and Stereotypes in Comedy</li></ul><p>&amp; Jacob’s new tour “Space” which covers the nuances of Gender Identity and how we can become a more compassionate society.</p><p>I am opening for Jacob on the Glasgow date of his tour and you can buy tickets here:</p><p><a href="https://www.whatsonglasgow.co.uk/event/129914-jacob-hawley:-space/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.whatsonglasgow.co.uk/event/129914-jacob-hawley:-space/</a></p>

#105 David Pinsof - Status: How to Use it, Choose it, Lose it and Abuse it

<p>David is the Co-Creator of Cards Against Humanity, Researcher at UCLA Mind Labs and popular blogger on human motivation.</p><p><br /></p><p>In this episode we cover human behavior, status, and societal dynamics, all through the lens of the writings and research of David Pinsof. </p><p><br /></p><p>Join us as we explore the fascinating genesis story of Cards Against Humanity and the factors contributing to its cultural phenomenon. </p><p><br /></p><p>We'll dive deep into questions about human motivation and the pursuit of status, discussing themes such as the difference between lying and bullshitting, understanding our true selves, and connecting with others.</p><p><br /></p><p>Throughout our conversations, we'll explore the origins and effects of status, its relationship with mental health, and the intricacies of balancing personal fulfillment with financial success. </p><p><br /></p><p>We'll also examine the role of narratives in shaping our lives and the impact of status games on society. From performative empathy to the pursuit of sacred values, we'll tackle a wide range of topics, including the influence of social media on mental health.</p><p>Join us as we navigate through the complexities of societal concerns and why certain fears, like the fear of death, can be seen as "bullshit." Together, we'll explore how individuals can navigate these challenges to lead more fulfilling lives.</p><p><br /></p><p>Follow me on Instagram - @developmentbydavid</p>

#104 Example - My UK #1 Changed My Life

<p>Example is a Singer and Songwriter with two #1 UK hits - Changed the Way You Kissed Me and Stay Awake. He is also a hero of mine. He has had a 15+ year career with sold out UK tours spanning his career. He’s currently on his 2023 UK Tour and has joined me in my Glasgow Studio. If you wish to watch the 4K cinematic episode, watch on Youtube. Buy tickets to the remaining tour dates here: https://www.bandsintown.com/a/3869-example Follow Example here: https://www.instagram.com/example/ Follow Me here: https://www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid/?hl=en Sponsors: Vybey: Enjoy the one stop shop for all your health and wellness needs. Vybey Brancare has you covered. https://vybey.co.uk/?shpxid=8fd86afd-6feb-46d5-84d6-05f7347a8d7a Zero Gravity: Zero Gravity, the online mentoring programme, is a lifeline that connects untapped talent in low-opportunity areas to a world of possibilities. Zero Gravity is packed with features designed to take talent to the top – from mentoring, masterclasses, internships and scholarships to personalised career opportunities. https://www.zerogravity.co.uk/</p> <p><br></p>

#103 Rob Henderson - Care Crisis: Parenting and the Dark Side of Foster Homes

<p>Rob Henderson is an Author, Cambridge PhD recipient, Yale Graduate, a US Air Force Veteran and a popular writer on Substack.</p> <p>Going to school is far less important than having a parent who cares enough to make sure you get to class every day. 60% of boys in foster care are later incarcerated, while only 3 percent graduate from college. Children raised in a wealthy but unstable home are more likely to engage in harmful adult behaviors than a child raised in a low-income home yet stable home.</p> <p>How a child raised in a wealthy but unstable home is more likely to engage in harmful adult behaviors than a child raised in a low-income home yet stable home</p> <p>These are harrowing facts that Rob has devoted his lift to researching.</p> <p>In this emotive episode, Rob unveils the stark realities of growing up in a system that often fails its most vulnerable members - the care system.</p> <p>Rob Henderson&#39;s remarkable journey from foster care to elite academia is a testament to his resilience and determination.</p> <p>From his turbulent childhood in foster homes to his academic achievements at elite universities, Henderson sheds light on the challenges faced by foster children, highlighting the staggering statistics that reveal the harsh realities of their outcomes. Through personal anecdotes and insightful analysis, he delves into the concept of &quot;luxury beliefs&quot; embraced by the upper class, exploring how these ideologies can perpetuate inequality and harm the very individuals they aim to uplift.</p> <p>As Rob reflects on his own experiences and those of his peers who fell victim to the cycle of incarceration and despair, he challenges societal norms and redefines the meaning of success. With raw honesty and unwavering determination, he underscores the importance of stability and parental support in shaping one&#39;s future, emphasizing that true prosperity goes beyond external accolades.</p> <p>This is a podcast episode close to my heart and I am so proud to be part of a choir of voices bringing this to light.</p> <p>Order Rob’s Book “Troubled: A Memoir of Foster Care, Family and Social Class” here: <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Troubled-Memoir-Foster-Family-Social-ebook/dp/B0C6CFDNGH">https://www.amazon.co.uk/Troubled-Memoir-Foster-Family-Social-ebook/dp/B0C6CFDNGH</a></p> <p>Follow Rob on X: <a href="https://twitter.com/robkhenderson?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor">https://twitter.com/robkhenderson?ref_src=twsrc^google|twcamp^serp|twgr^author</a></p> <p>Extra Stuff:</p> <p>Follow me on Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid">www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid</a></p>

#102 Rory Sutherland - Decoding Human Behaviour

Rory Sutherland is one of the world's leading consumer behaviour experts, the Vice Chairman of Ogilvy Advertising and an author.Cancel culture is as prominent as ever before. But, why is everybody so sensitive? Thankfully, Rory has spent decades understanding human motivation and subconscious behaviour to let us know how to avoid it. We dissect the mysteries behind stand-up comedy, navigate the tricky terrain of cancel culture, explore banned words, and hear about the time Rory nearly cracked penis jokes with the Queen's doctor.Discover Rory's fascinating encounters with Def Jam Records founder Rick Rubin, unravel the epic tale of the Concorde's spectacular failure, and explore why AI won't be stealing our jobs anytime soon. And, of course, don't miss Rory's intriguing take on the Hollywood dark film, Saltburn.I'm beyond lucky to bring you these conversations. Rory's book 'Alchemy' tops my all-time favorites, and spending a combined 5 hours with him has been nothing short of a blessing.Extra Stuff:Buy Alchemy - https://amzn.to/3DyaBfo Follow Rory on X - @rorysutherland Sponsors: VybeyUse code "DbyD" for 15% site wide: https://vybey.co.uk/?shpxid=f36c0d3a-dd5a-46be-8d64-f23f7458eb39West Coast MotorsQuote "Development by David" on your next used car purchase: https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/

#101 Taylor Cavanaugh - NAVY SEAL: Discipline, Mindset, HELL WEEK and Secrets of the Toughest Military Training

<p>Taylor Cavanaugh is a French Legionnaire and Former US Navy Seal. </p> <p>This episode we learn about discipline and mindset from a soldier who has passed the most difficult military recruitment processes.</p> <p>Join us as we delve into the life of a French Foreign Legionnaire and uncover the remarkable story of Taylor&#39;s tumultuous path. </p> <p>From the treacherous terrain of his early years to the challenges faced in the military, we rewind to pre-military Taylor and his surroundings, offering a glimpse into the shaping of a resilient individual.</p> <p>Discover the sights and sounds of childhood trauma through Taylor&#39;s lens, and explore the significance of male role models in shaping one&#39;s character. </p> <p>Dive into the conversation about finding purpose and the transformative power of growing through subtraction – shedding habits that no longer serve us.</p> <p>Ever wondered what BUDS training &amp; HELL WEEK is like? Taylor shares insights into the rigorous Navy SEALs training and opens up about the realities of deployment. And for those curious about the limits, we explore what it takes to be kicked out of the Navy SEALs... and find redemption!</p> <p><br></p> <p>---------- Support Taylor Cavanaugh - Website: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWJZUmZRNW9UbkV4OUI3RGhHeHVxT2lvUUJYd3xBQ3Jtc0tuMFdKdzY3N3pOamRoZGFmMWRYVUVheUx3VHZlM2VIR3VzZmpwVzYwbG9SU0YzRUtvQkx2ZTR1eF93WktwYjZtd0NvUGNmUm1majMwY2tIemkzWmdITDA0eHc2MTI3cXJwWnpSU0ZkZVZSNlFzZzEyYw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.taylorcavanaugh.com%2F&v=JhFOHZ9CbRo" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">https://www.taylorcavanaugh.com</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa2dMaDZ3dXZXdnNZam5fNUxWNU03NU12SGNqUXxBQ3Jtc0ttY3UzS2VleVljMlRNMlRTaTJubHNpcURQRXFtcmd3SUZyZlJ3dTRpRmFLSlR3TV9vRENVbzFBZGRRekdKY2dITnVGQlV0ZjVPaWRYS2E4cXVPS3VsWWk0YnkybVUzN1l1TzZuN2oyM1VPNjlNZHRvSQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Ftcavofficial&v=JhFOHZ9CbRo" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">  / tcavofficial  </a> YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@tcavofficial" rel="nofollow">   / @tcavofficial  </a></p>

#100 Special - My Untold Story of Childhood Resilience: Poverty, Young Grief, Addiction, Podcasting and Comedy (4K Video)

<p>In this milestone 100th episode, I hand over the mic as I invite you into the intimate corners of my home and my life. </p> <p>One of my most played guests David Galbraith is today&#39;s host.</p> <p>Having hosted the previous 99 stories of transformation,I now thought the time was right to share mine by stepping into full vulnerability and transparency. </p> <p>David G allows me to recount the chapters of young grief, navigating through poverty, grappling with family alcoholism, and wrestling with being socially exiled.</p> <p>Throughout the episode, I unveil the levers and tools that empowered me to transform my traumas into sources of strength. Offering advice to those battling shame, fear, and confusion rooted in their upbringing, I provide insights on how to cultivate the confidence to share one&#39;s story.</p> <p>And as a poignant surprise, our esteemed host, David Galbraith, reduces to me to tears with a huge surprise.</p> <p>Thank you all for joining me on this personal odyssey. Thank you for being a part of my story and The Development by David Podcast.</p> <p>With Love, David</p> <p><br></p> <p>https://www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid/</p>

#99 Sinitta - Teenage Superstardom and Celebrity Life Uncovered

<p>Prepare for an eye-opening episode with the legendary Sinitta!</p> <p>Sinitta, the chart-topping pop singer, celebrity, and mother, takes us on a journey through her incredible life:</p> <ul> <li><p>She was a true 1980s sensation, sharing the UK charts with Michael Jackson, Rick Astley, Pet Shop Boys, and Def Leppard, hitting #2 with her unforgettable singles &quot;So Macho&quot; and &quot;Toy Boy.&quot;</p> </li> <li><p>Sinitta toured the world, rubbing shoulders with music icons like Michael Jackson, Prince, and Elton John.</p> </li> <li><p>Recognized as one of the most beautiful and iconic figures of her time, Sinitta&#39;s star power continues to shine.</p> </li> <li><p>Her 30-year on/off relationship with X Factor and record label mogul Simon Cowell is legendary, but her dating history also includes Brad Pitt and David Essex.</p> </li> <li><p>In this episode, Sinitta reveals for the FIRST TIME George Michael&#39;s astonishing request for her to be his &quot;pretend&quot; girlfriend while concealing his sexuality – and why she declined.</p> </li> <li><p>She shares her exciting plans for her 60s, which include dating, creating new music, embracing passion, and spreading the empowering message that older women are vibrant and full of life.</p> </li> <li><p>Sinitta also opens up about her challenges with pregnancy, IVF, and surrogacy, sharing her intimate experiences of adopting her beautiful children, Magdalena and Zach.</p> </li> </ul> <p>Get ready for an unfiltered, surprising, and deeply personal interview with Sinitta – this episode is a must-listen! </p>