About this episode
Sadia Khan is a relationship coach and a speaker. Dating in the modern world is more fraught than ever. Men and women are finding themselves confused and lost as they try to make sense of a mating landscape which becomes ever more difficult to navigate. Expect to learn why Sadia’s Instagram has been banned 3 times, why nice guys have such a hard time in relationships, whether men and women can actually be friends, whether hot women tend to be crazier, how to stop being a jealous partner, whether body count actually matters, why married couples cheat, what Love Island is doing to our view of romance and much more... Timestamps: (00:00) The Widespread Belief That Love is Toxic (06:32) The Safety of the Inner Citadel (10:14) Consequences of the Rise of Sex Work (17:38) Psychology of Slut-Shaming (26:39) Why Nice Guys Suffer (35:37) Can Men & Women Be Friends? (46:05) The Many Failures of the Sexual Revolution (55:28) The Growing Trend of Childlessness (1:09:25) What Reality Shows Are Teaching Young People About Relationship (1:13:55) Transgender Dating Dynamics (1:22:04) Are Hot Girls More Crazy? (1:31:45) Is It Hard For Successful Men to Settle Down? (1:37:00) Feeling Jealous About a Partner’s Body Count (1:43:20) The Lost Treasure of Traditional Women (1:57:11) Are AI Girlfriends the Future? (2:07:23) Where to Find Sadia Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: This Is How To Master Your Life - David Goggins - #577: lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700: lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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