Paul Brunson: Women Need To Lower Their Standards! If They Have These 3 Traits, Never Let Them Go! If You Get Sick, There’s A 624% Chance He’ll Leave!
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From dating disaster to 'I do', Paul Brunson cracks the rules of love and reveals the do’s and don’ts for an unbreakable relationship Paul Brunson is a world-renowned relationship expert, entrepreneur, and host of the number 1 dating and relationships advice show, ‘We Need To Talk’. He is the author of books such as, ‘Find Love: How to navigate modern love and discover the right partner for you’ and ‘Keep Love: 21 Truths for a Long-Lasting Relationship’. In this conversation, Paul and Steven discuss topics such as, the top 3 signs of a successful relationship, the dangers of serial dating, why women are attracted to taller men, and the hidden benefits of doubting your relationship. 00:00 Intro 02:25 Who Is Paul C Brunson? 04:44 How Has Love Evolved Since You Started This? 07:47 Why Are People Struggling to Find Love? 11:46 The Danger of Comparison 16:26 Racism Within Dating 20:29 Are Arranged Marriages More Successful? 24:26 Your Friends Usually Know If You're With the Right Person 27:05 We Have to Lower Our Expectations of Our Partners 29:58 We Have Countless Options in Today’s Society 33:54 The Difference Between Men & Women When the Other Gets Sick 39:36 Satisfaction in Marriage Is the Most Important Thing 43:06 Should We Be Talking About Our Relationships? 46:06 We Will Be Attracted to Other People, and That’s OK 51:46 Women Are Better at Maintaining Their Connections Than Men 55:15 Should We Be Getting Married? 58:45 Marriages Should Be Harder to Get Into 01:09:19 What Predicts a Successful Marriage? 01:10:21 What Qualities Should I Look for in a Partner? 01:13:50 The Demand Doesn’t Reflect What’s in the Dating Market 01:28:21 Are People With Symmetrical Features More Attractive? 01:30:03 How Self-Esteem Plays a Huge Role in Partner Choices 01:34:28 Advice for People With Low Self-Esteem Who Base Relationships on Superficial Traits 01:36:57 Paul Brunson’s Experience With IVF 01:41:35 Infertility Issues & Relationship Problems 01:44:41 What Can a Man Do to Find and Keep a Partner? 01:47:12 Relationship Myths 01:52:22 Desire Management 01:56:31 Anxious Attachment Style Going for Avoidant Partners 02:06:43 The Importance of Conflict Resolution 02:10:29 You Should Say Sorry More Often 02:19:03 Should You Go to Bed Angry at Your Partner? 02:22:29 Is Cheating the End of the Relationship? 02:29:09 Discipline in Relationships 02:31:12 When Did You Discover Your Own Power? The 1% Diary is back! and it won’t be around for long, so act fast! https://bit.ly/1-Diary-Megaphone-ad-reads Follow Paul: Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/eurBFxKryQb Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/tubp7wMryQb We Need To Talk - https://g2ul0.app.link/lZTgjNOryQb You can pre-order Paul’s book ‘Keep Love: 21 Truths for a Long-Lasting Relationship (The Fundamentals of Love, 2), here: https://g2ul0.app.link/l5JUBlTryQb My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Sponsors: WHOOP - JOIN.WHOOP.COM/CEO ZOE - http://joinzoe.com with code BARTLETT10 for 10% off PerfectTed - https://www.perfectted.com with code DIARY40 for 40% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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