Dr Tara Porter on Parenting

About this episode

<p>Clinical Psychologist, Dr Tara Porter, has worked with children and adolescents for over 25 years, including as the lead of a NHS CAMHS Psychology Team. She has seen first hand the increase in children being referred to these services, and has written a new book based on what she believes are some of the root causes of the problems that children - and parents - are struggling with today. Tara does not profess to have all the answers, or to be the perfect parent herself; far from it, the focus of her book is on parenting that’s “good enough” - not perfect. She explains to Gabby the reasoning behind this, and how the strive for perfection has caused a disparity between opportunities and expectations, which is harming both parents and children.&nbsp;</p><br><p>As well as explaining what she’s come to see as her three principles of “good enough” parenting, Dr Tara answers some of your questions including how best to support your child through exam stress, and how to help your child navigate friendships and school dynamics. They also discuss some of the issues raised in the recent Netflix series, <em>Adolescence,</em> and her take on how to approach the issue of smartphones with your children to try and ensure they stay open about what’s going on in their digital world.&nbsp;</p><br><p>Dr Tara’s new book <a href="https://lnk.to/GoodEnough" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Good Enough: A Framework for Modern Parenting</em></a> is available now, as is her debut <a href="https://www.waterstones.com/book/you-dont-understand-me/tara-porter/9781788705127" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>You Don't Understand Me: the Young Woman's Guide to Life</em></a>. </p><p>You can find out more about the therapeutic services she provides at www.taraporterpsychologist.com</p><br><p><br></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>