Hidden Brain

Playing the Gender Card

<p>What is it like to be the only woman at the (poker) table? Or a rare man in a supposedly "feminine" career? In this favorite episode from 2019, we tell the stories of two people who grappled with gender stereotypes on the job, and consider how such biases can shape our career choices. </p> <p><em>I</em><em>f you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at </em><em><a href="http://support.hiddenbrain.org/">support.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at </em><em><a href="http://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>.</em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

You, But Better

<p>Think about the resolutions you made this year: to quit smoking, eat better, or get more exercise. If you're like most people, you probably abandoned those resolutions within a few weeks. That's because change is hard. Behavioral scientist <a href="https://oid.wharton.upenn.edu/profile/kmilkman/">Katy Milkman</a> explains how we can use our minds to do what's good for us.</p> <p><em>I</em><em>f you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at </em><em><a href="http://support.hiddenbrain.org/">support.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at </em><em><a href="http://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>.</em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

The Influence You Have

<p>Think about the last time you asked someone for something. Maybe you were nervous or worried about what the person would think of you. Chances are that you didn't stop to think about the pressure <em>you</em> were exerting on that person. This week, we revisit a favorite episode about a phenomenon known as "egocentric bias," and look at how this bias can lead us astray. </p> <p><em>I</em><em>f you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at </em><em><a href="http://support.hiddenbrain.org/">support.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at </em><em><a href="http://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>.</em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

What Twins Tell Us

<p>In December 1988, two sets of identical twins became test subjects in a study for which they had never volunteered. It was an experiment that could never be performed in a lab, and had never before been documented. This week, we revisit this fascinating story, told by <a href="http://psychology.fullerton.edu/faculty/facultyprofiles/n_segal.aspx">psychologist Nancy Segal</a>, about the eternal tug between nature and nurture in shaping who we are.</p> <p><em>I</em><em>f you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at </em><em><a href="http://support.hiddenbrain.org/">support.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at </em><em><a href="http://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>.</em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

The Power of Apologies

<p>Why is it so hard to say 'I'm sorry?' In part two of our series on forgiveness and apologies, we talk with psychologist <a href="https://business.uq.edu.au/profile/788/tyler-okimoto">Tyler Okimoto</a> about the mental barriers that keep us from admitting when we've done something wrong, as well as the transformative power of apologies.</p> <p><em>I</em><em>f you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at </em><em><a href="http://support.hiddenbrain.org/">support.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at </em><em><a href="http://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a></em><em>.</em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

The Power of Mercy

<p>Granting forgiveness for the wrongs done to us can be one of the hardest things we face in life. But forgiveness can also be transformative. In the first of a two-part series on apologies and mercy, we talk with psychologist <a href="https://hope.edu/directory/people/vanoyen-witvliet-charlotte/index.html">Charlotte Witvliet</a> about the benefits of forgiveness, for both the mind and the body. </p> <p><em>If you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/HiddenBrain">support.hiddenbrain.org</a>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at <a href="https://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a>. </em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

What are the Odds?

<p>Coincidences can feel like magic. When we realize that a co-worker shares our birthday or run into a college roommate while on vacation, it can give us a surge of delight. Today, we revisit a favorite episode about these moments of serendipity. Mathematician <a href="http://www.josephmazur.com/">Joseph Mazur</a> explains why coincidences aren't as unlikely as we think they are, and psychologist <a href="https://www.chicagobooth.edu/faculty/directory/e/nicholas-epley">Nicholas Epley</a> tells us why we can't help but find meaning in them anyway. </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

This is Your Brain on Ads

<p>Have you ever opened your computer with the intention of sending one email — only to spend an hour scrolling through social media? Maybe two hours? In this favorite episode from our archives, we look at how media, tech, and entertainment companies hijack our attention. Plus, we consider how the commercials we saw as children continue to shape our behavior as adults. </p> <p><em>If you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/HiddenBrain">support.hiddenbrain.org</a>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at <a href="https://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a>. </em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Why We Hold on to Things

<p>What do the things you own say about who you are? Psychologist <a href="https://research-information.bris.ac.uk/en/persons/bruce-m-hood">Bruce Hood</a> studies our relationship with our possessions – from beloved childhood objects to the everyday items we leave behind.</p> <p><em>If you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/HiddenBrain">support.hiddenbrain.org</a>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at <a href="https://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a>. </em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Loss and Renewal

<p>No matter how hard we work, we won’t always achieve the goals we set for ourselves. When cognitive scientist Maya Shankar was a girl, she wanted to be a concert violinist. Then an injury forced her to imagine her life anew. This week, we revisit a favorite episode from 2015 with Maya. She’s now the host of a new podcast, <a href="https://www.pushkin.fm/show/slight-change-of-plans/">A Slight Change of Plans</a>.</p> <p><em>If you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/HiddenBrain">support.hiddenbrain.org</a>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at <a href="https://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a>. </em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Tribes and Traitors

<p>In the past weeks, headlines around the world have focused on the violent conflict between Israelis and Palestinians. In this favorite episode from our archive, we hear from a former Israeli soldier and a Palestinian man who asked a radical question: <em>what happens when you empathize with your enemy? </em> They found that showing such empathy can be powerful — but also carries risks. </p> <p><em>If you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/HiddenBrain">support.hiddenbrain.org</a>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at <a href="https://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a>. </em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Our Noisy Minds

<p>Psychologist <a href="https://scholar.princeton.edu/kahneman/home">Daniel Kahneman</a> says there are invisible factors that distort our judgment. He calls these factors “noise.” The consequences can be found in everything from marriage proposals to medical diagnoses and prison sentences. This week on <em>Hidden Brain</em>, we consider how to identify noise in the world, and in our own lives.</p> <p><em>If you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/HiddenBrain">support.hiddenbrain.org</a>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at <a href="https://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a>. </em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

The Fake Bride

<p>Have you ever felt as if someone else was writing your personal narrative? Controlling what you do, shaping how you act? This week on <em>Hidden Brain</em>, we bring you a surreal tale about a woman who became a reluctant character in someone else’s love story.</p> <p><em>If you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at <a href="https://www.patreon.com/HiddenBrain">support.hiddenbrain.org</a>. And to learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at <a href="https://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a>. </em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Josh Gitelson: My Unsung Hero

<p>At the end of every episode, we take a moment to thank an Unsung Hero: someone who’s not on the staff of the show, but who went above and beyond in helping us out. In recent weeks, we've been asking you to share your own examples of someone who's made an impact on your life. This time, Josh Gitelson of State College, Pa., recalls a small gesture of kindness from a stranger on a plane. <br /><br />Do you have a story of an unsung hero you want to share with our listeners? Tell us about it! Please email us at <a href="mailto:ideas@hiddenbrain.org">ideas@hiddenbrain.org</a>, with the subject line "Unsung Hero." For some guidelines on what we're looking for, go to <a href="https://hiddenbrain.org/unsunghero/">hiddenbrain.org/unsunghero</a>.</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

One Head, Two Brains

<p>Your brain is divided in two: a left hemisphere and a right hemisphere. In this 2019 episode of <em>Hidden Brain</em>, we dive into <a href="https://channelmcgilchrist.com/">Iain McGilchrist's</a> research on how the left and right hemispheres shape our perceptions. Iain argues that differences in the brain — and Western society's preference for what one hemisphere has to offer — have had enormous effects on our lives.</p> <p><em>If you like our work, please consider supporting it! See how you can help at <a href="http://support.hiddenbrain.org/">support.hiddenbrain.org</a>. To learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at <a href="http://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a></em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Deb Pierce: My Unsung Hero

<p>In every episode of <i>Hidden Brain</i>, we thank an Unsung Hero — a colleague, a friend or a family member who has helped make our work possible from behind the scenes. Recently, we asked you to tell us about your own unsung heroes. This week, Deb Pierce remembers the nurse who showed up at one of the hardest moments in her life — when her newborn daughter passed away.</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Why Conversations Go Wrong

<p>Do you ever struggle to communicate with your mom? Or feel like you and your spouse sometimes speak different languages? We talk with linguist <a href="http://www.deborahtannen.com/">Deborah Tannen</a> about how our conversational styles can cause unintended conflicts, and what we can do to communicate more effectively with the people in our lives.</p> <p><em>If you like our work, please try to support us! See how you can help at <a href="http://support.hiddenbrain.org/">support.hiddenbrain.org</a>. To learn more about human behavior and ideas that can improve your life, subscribe to our newsletter at <a href="http://news.hiddenbrain.org/">news.hiddenbrain.org</a></em></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Unsung Hero: A Cold Nevada Night

<p>In every episode of <em>Hidden Brain</em>, we thank an Unsung Hero. Many listeners have written to say they love this segment, even sharing their own Unsung Heroes. Today, we're sharing one of those stories with you. </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Humor Us

<p>Hahaha! The average four-year-old child laughs 300 times a day. By contrast, it takes more than two months for the average 40-year-old adult to laugh that many times. This week, we talk with behavioral scientist <a href="https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/faculty-research/faculty/jennifer-lynn-aaker">Jennifer Aaker</a> of Stanford University about why so many of us fall off a “humor cliff” as we become adults. Plus, how we can inject more laughter into our lives, even during the most difficult of times. </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

An Unfinished Lesson

<p>More than a century ago, millions of people around the world died in a massive influenza pandemic. The so-called "Spanish flu" outbreak of 1918 revealed a truth about viruses: they don't just infect us biologically. They also detect fissures in societies and fault lines between communities. Historian <a href="https://www.pugetsound.edu/faculty-pages/nbristow">Nancy Bristow</a> says this remains true today, as we continue to grapple with the COVID-19 pandemic.This week, we revisit our 2020 conversation with Bristow, and consider what history can tell us about human behavior during public health crises. </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Useful Delusions

<p>Podcast hosts are used to being the ones asking the questions. This week, though, we’re going to flip that script, and put Shankar in the guest seat. We’ll hear a recent interview he did with Krys Boyd of the public radio show <em>Think</em> from KERA in Dallas. The discussion revolves around Shankar's latest book, <a href="https://hiddenbrain.org/books/"><em>Useful Delusions</em></a>, and how self-deceptions can bind together marriages, communities, and even entire nations.</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Made of Honor

<p>Stories help us make sense of the world, and can even help us to heal from trauma. They also shape our cultural narratives, for better and for worse. This week on <em>Hidden Brain</em>, we conclude our three-part series on storytelling with a look at the phenomenon of "honor culture," and how it dictates the way we think and behave. </p> <p> </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

The Story of Your Life

<p>We can’t go back and change the past. We can’t erase trauma and hardship. But what if there was a way to regain control of our personal narratives? In the second part of our series on storytelling, we look at how interpreting the stories of our lives — and rewriting them — can change us forever.</p> <p><em>Also, a note that this week's episode touches on themes of trauma and suicide. If you or someone you know may be having thoughts of suicide, please call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. </em></p> <p> </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

The Story of Stories

<p>Why is my friend late? How does nuclear fission work? What occurs when I sneeze? We all need to understand why certain things happen. Some researchers think the drive to explain the world is a basic human impulse, similar to thirst or hunger. This week on Hidden Brain, we begin a three part series on why we tell stories. <a href="https://psych.princeton.edu/person/tania-lombrozo">Psychologist Tania Lombrozo</a> discusses how explanations can lead to discovery, delight, and disaster.</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Radically Normal

<p>For generations, it was difficult, even dangerous, to express a sexual orientation other than heterosexuality in the United States. But in recent years, much has changed. This week, we revisit our 2019 episode about one of the most striking transformations of public attitude ever recorded. And we consider whether the strategies used by the LGBTQ community hold lessons for other groups seeking change.</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

The Snowball Effect

<p>Why do some companies become household names, while others flame out? How do certain memes go viral? And why do some social movements take off and spread, while others fizzle? Today on the show, we talk with sociologist <a href="https://www.asc.upenn.edu/people/faculty/damon-centola-phd">Damon Centola</a> about social contagion, and how it can be harnessed to build a better world.</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

The Match

<p>We get messages all the time from listeners who say <em>Hidden Brain</em> has helped them to think differently about the world, and about themselves. As producers, nothing is more rewarding or gratifying. Today, we bring you a listener story that especially moved us. It’s a tale about two friends, and how our show played a small role in their dramatic story.</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Creating God

<p>If you've taken part in a religious service, have you ever stopped to think about how people become believers? Where do the rituals come from? And what purpose does it all serve? This week, we bring you a 2018 episode with social psychologist <a href="https://psych.ubc.ca/profile/azim-shariff/">Azim Shariff</a>. He argues that we should consider religion from a Darwinian perspective, as an innovation that helped human societies to grow and flourish. </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Is It Better to Know?

<p>Being able to see what’s happening around us can help us make smart decisions. But knowledge — especially knowledge of how others perceive us — can also hold us back, mire us in needless worry, and keep us from achieving our potential. This week, we look at the paradox of knowledge. </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>

Love is Blind

<p>Why do some relationships last, while others falter? In this bonus episode, Shankar looks at one thing successful couples do well. </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>